this should be common sense but girls like someone who is confident not someone who hates themselves.. they don’t want the same old corny cliche lame lines and promises “oh baby you’re my everything you’re so damn beautiful.. ” BLA BLA BLA cmon don’t be lazy and think of new ways to approach a girl and new things to say. who doesn’t love a good sense of humor? well girls certainly do, tickle their funny bone and maybe they’ll tickle yours ;] Be able to keep a conversation going because if there are awkward silences it’s really hard for a girl to want to talk to you, if you need help doing that go throughout your day, your week, or your month making mental notes of all the funny, interesting, and noteworthy things that happen in that time period, when you see the girl and you feel an awkward silence coming tell her about it and start a conversation from there. lastly, patience is key, don’t become obsessed or get all crazy because she’s not your girlfriend right away, things take time you need to sell yourself in order for her to want to buy. if you’re a good salesman you’ll find a good client. of course always be true to yourself and to her because lies will get you no where, don’t hide yourself or lie because i don’t know a person in the world who loves being lied to, your goal is to get to know her and if she’s to accept she wants to get to know you too so don’t lie and don’t hide your real person.