How to Win a Girl in 7 Steps
Seeing how it’s the Holiday season, this is always a time where it’s nice to have a date or to have that special someone with you. With this in mind, I figured that I would post about how you guys out there can go find yourself that special someone. While I’m directing this post towards all those single guys out there, all you ladies can also keep reading so you can find ways to drop subtle hints to that guy that you have your eye on. Now you may be thinking that I’m a guy so what would I know, so I got Mazie to help out too to give it that female touch.
1. First things first, make sure you have a single girl in mind or that you’d like to go out with. If you try this on a girl who’s already taken, I take no responsibility if her boyfriend comes to beat you up. Also, make sure that she atleast knows you. It may be fun to go and try and go out with a random girl, but that’s just hurting your chances of success. If you are able to date that random girl, then you really don’t need to be reading my advice anyways.
2. Like yourself! How’s a girl supposed to like you if you don’t even like yourself? For those that need some help liking themselves, just repeat this following phrase over and over again out loud. “I am an attractive human being, and people like me.” After enough repetition, you’ll begin to feel better about yourself and have more confidence in yourself too. This will go a long way in trying to get that girl.
3. Have somewhere to go. It’s very important that you have an event or a place planned out as to where you can take this special lady. While going to your friends place to play video games all night may seem like a blast to you, unless you have a girl who loves video games, this will most likely turn them off. Try to pick a place where you’ll have a good chance to be able to talk with them, but also having something to do so that you aren’t sitting there doing nothing cause you have nothing to say. A restaurant would be a good starting place to take her, just make sure that she likes the food!
4. Work on your approach. Using pickup lines such as “Oh baby, you must be tired, you’ve been running in my mind all day!” is generally a bad way to approach asking a girl out on a date. It’s a bad way to even start up a conversation as it would most likely kill any chances you have right there. So figure out what the best way to talk to them is. Is there a place or event where you know you’ll meet up with her? Do you talk to her semi-regularly where it wouldn’t be out of place to call? Try to keep it as natural as possible, so as the girl doesn’t begin to think that you’re stalking her. The best way would be to probably meet up with her at a place where you generally see her, and just have small talk until you can find the right opportunity. It’s best to get them in a conversation with you first so that they become friendlier with you and are more likely to accept an invitation.
5. Confidence is key! In order to give yourself the best shot, it’s better to be confident of yourself and of what you’re about to do. While it might be nerve wracking at first, you’ll most likely have a better chance of getting her to accept if you’re confident when you ask her. However, don’t become cocky or obnoxious as this will most likely definitely turn off the girl and get you rejected. Also, be prepared for any answer that you may receive. It’s possible that the girl may not want to go out on that date with you, so understand that you may just get that answer from her. If you do, kindly accept her answer and leave the option open to her in case she decides to change her mind in the future.
6. Go for it! It’s almost cliché to say, but just be yourself. If you really are trying to find that special someone, they’ll eventually figure out who you really are, so make it easy for them and for yourself and just be yourself. While being someone you’re not may get you that first date, you may not get a second one when they find out more about who you really are. If a girl can’t like you for who you are, then it’s not worth your effort to try and date her.
7. Be a gentleman. Whether she accepts your invitation or not, it’s still good to always be a gentleman. Doing the simple things such as opening doors, walking her back late at night, or other things is always going to be a plus for you. If other girls see you as being such a gentleman, you might be able to catch their interest if things don’t work out for the first girl. It doesn’t take much effort and will go a long way in getting her to remember you. The more she thinks about you, the better chance you’ll have of repeat dates.
Hopefully, with the guide that Mazie and I put together, you guys will have a good chance of getting that date or finding that special someone. Feel free to leave your own advice too. Plain and simple, just be yourself and things will work out from there. If all else fails, flowers always help. Hey, it worked for me! 
Some helpful posts:
How to Ask Someone Out
7 Steps to a Better Looking You!
7 Steps to Better Etiquette
The Value of a Good Smile!
Making Skillful First Impressions!
7 Gifts for a Girl <- NEW
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Mazie
6 Dec 04 at 9:16 pm
sum tseng din gai gum tsa?
why am i sad?? because your advice is common sense!!! yet.. here i stand with both my arms wrapped around nobody… maybe i’ll work on my ‘dee maaa babeee’..
bonzai
6 Dec 04 at 9:33 pm
hey bonzai how bout:
ney sic ghor “lunch” mei ah?
(have you had lunch yet?)
zherng uhm zherng ghan ha ghor se yut se ghan son chaun gwoon ah?
(would you like to try out this new restaurant with me?)
Mazie
6 Dec 04 at 9:46 pm
“seeeee FUT!”
works like a charm!
Mitchell
6 Dec 04 at 10:14 pm
lol this is really good, u wrote it?
is that how you and Mazie got together?
Jenn
7 Dec 04 at 7:58 am
haha yea, I wrote it with Mazie’s help. What I wrote was similar to how we got together.
Lawrence
7 Dec 04 at 8:16 am
you guys should open a dating consultant company…LOL
Anonymous
7 Dec 04 at 8:32 am
ooops…forgot to wirte my name
Crystal
7 Dec 04 at 8:32 am
sounds as smooth as a self-help book or a magazine article.
papillonsl
7 Dec 04 at 11:50 am
haha I should publish a book!
Lawrence
7 Dec 04 at 2:29 pm
i like the “be prepared.” that sounds like either boyscout-influence or 1 peter 3:15: “But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect. . . “
sophia
14 Dec 04 at 12:53 pm
Good advice but not a lot of people have the confidence to ask a girl out even when they understand that the girl mayby fancies them.
Mark Nicoll
10 Apr 05 at 10:17 am
just go for it what do you have to lose:lol:
troy
4 May 05 at 10:37 am
#5 is key.
It’s a complete turnoff when a guy with no or little confidence tries to get with me. If a guy talks about what a loser he is all the time, then I believe that they are, in fact, a loser!
Jandi
1 Jun 05 at 1:40 am
Even though I knew that already, reading it makes it all a lot clearer. I just hope it helps with getting a girl back.
Dan
2 Jun 05 at 7:03 pm
i like men smarter and more hardworking than me. financially stable and without a temper.
Anonymous
4 Jul 05 at 5:39 pm
You are such the ladies man.
sam
31 Jul 05 at 1:44 pm
you got all the information i needed thanks you rock
chi
9 Aug 05 at 12:10 am
alma
10 Aug 05 at 4:53 am
hi i need advise i might only be 15 but the i loved dunped me and i still love her ur advise work then but now this is a new challange P.s my hotmail account is reapers_guard@hotmail.com (plz help)
tom
17 Aug 05 at 3:47 am
ok nvm i sorted it out
tom
18 Aug 05 at 3:24 am
cool
23 Aug 05 at 2:36 am
thaks for the 7 tips but how can i trust myself ?
what is the best approched on asking a girl out on a date ? how would i know if the girl like me
lonely heart
1 Sep 05 at 3:43 am
this is a hang on for number 23 would you help me
there is this beautiful amazing sweet young woman that works in the same store as me but different department than i do she is sweet and all but she is just a hard person to get i am 21 and i have tried everthing that came in my mind please leave me a coment i am lonely heart so please answer this comment under all coments forum
lonely heart
1 Sep 05 at 3:50 am
Anonymous
2 Sep 05 at 6:27 pm
hi
im 15
i was dumped by my ex. it really hurt. coz i really do love her. we had trouble comunicating and she has gym 6 nights a week. so i didnt no wat 2 do. i finally decided 2 sit down and try and tlk wit her. but b4 i got a chance she dumped me. i dnt no how 2 convince her 2 tlk 2 me. plz help!
gary
gary
4 Sep 05 at 11:36 am
ok cool
paschal
9 Sep 05 at 1:25 pm
im 16 and i tryed to get with a girl iliked and didnt know what to say so i kinda used the secret admirer aproach and it seemed it backfired so id really like some help on how to fix this problem
Anonymous
23 Sep 05 at 6:53 pm
Anonymous
28 Sep 05 at 1:36 am
ok I have a question—I know a girl, but I don’t know how to do small talk or aproach her (make friends) so that then I can ask her.
what shall I do?
nash
2 Oct 05 at 8:47 pm
CYq
10 Oct 05 at 10:38 pm
Hi, the advice is ok but the only thing is i’m 13 and i really can’t get any girls . they say i’m cute and nice, but when i ask them if they want to go wit me they say no cause they are my friend. now theirs this girl in my class and she’s already had a boyfriend in my class. so basically i want to go wit her badly she so fine but i think she plays hard to get. what will be my best approach?
Lance harris
17 Oct 05 at 7:43 pm
this is good stuff right her at first i asked a girl out and she sed i waz 2 imichur lol
(i now i spelled imichur rong hehehe 
)but this hellped me and now i got the girl of my dreams thank you:mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen:
sam
18 Oct 05 at 8:20 pm
I went out with this girl but she dumped me for some reason she doesnt want to tell me but we are sort of friends but she says she hates me still. I really love her alot and i need some help trying to get back together with herplease help me.
Dan
Dan
22 Oct 05 at 5:43 pm
i need advive from strangers so here it goes. im crazzy about this girl. now im a jr in highschool but i dont take dateing as a joke like most. anyways wev been hangin out lately and i thought we had a thing goin. i wasnt shure about how she felt untill halloween. i was stuck at my house and couldnt go with her and her brother trick or treating. i was stuck at home and she called on her cell and told me she was going to crush my pumpkin and came all the way over to my house and did. then we hung out and i drove her brother home and we hung out the until ten. we talked and talked and i was shure we were good. it was so oviuse. anyways she rejected me becsue of a boyfreind that dosnt live neer hear and personaly i dont think deserves her. either way very sorry to ramble but all i whant to know is if there are any
sugjestions on how i should win her over?
pirate drake
7 Nov 05 at 3:16 am
sorry for being so self sentered and typeing so much
pirate drake
7 Nov 05 at 3:19 am
i just think that people should wait because God has a plan for all of us and all of us will meet the right man/woman of or lives and then theres no point in havin a thousand or less,boys/girls just to find him/her,because theres only one guy/girl for each and one of us.
holly
7 Nov 05 at 11:00 pm
there’s this girl in my math class that i really like but i’m too shy to ask her out. i don’t know if she likes me or not and i don’t know if she’ll go out with me. what should i do to get myself to ask her or to see if she likes me?
ryce
8 Nov 05 at 8:48 pm
holly- have you ever considered: what if god hates you, what if he hates all of us? I’ve thought about it, and its not the worst thing that could happen.
carlisle
9 Nov 05 at 5:54 am
number 7 is the key point to it all!!
hilary
9 Nov 05 at 8:06 pm
I can certainly agree with alomost all the things you say-ALMOST!, one thing bro, restaurants are such common dating scenes it alomost doesnt rock, and your dates usuallu=y ends up like Jobs interviews, asking about family, jobs and stuff-keep the date hot-and keep it lively-go to places that will generate talk, i mean exciting subjects-dont do the interview thing and pay the bill-create the attraction, but remember attraction is illogical, and never happens by logical means-but good advice anyway-Just dont do the interview thing when you for the restaurant
CJ
11 Nov 05 at 4:02 pm
hey i need some help. i just met this girl i like but i dont think she likes me. how can i get her to talk to me more and get to eventually like me
anonymous
13 Nov 05 at 1:19 am
hey i was looking at this site, i found it of google, very very good advice thanks lawerence
mark from ireland
13 Nov 05 at 3:50 pm
is it wrong to feel like someone dropped an atomic bomb on me???
Sman
16 Nov 05 at 6:52 pm
joe
16 Nov 05 at 9:42 pm
thanks a lot i’m only in the sixth grade and i bet this will help me a lot to the girl i want.:!::cool:
Troy
18 Nov 05 at 11:09 pm
I have girl who are love she like me too but I ask her to go out she say no and I ask her why she say I should had ask her before now. what should I do? coz I love her. help pls
victor
19 Nov 05 at 12:43 pm
junior
21 Nov 05 at 9:36 am
Ok,Troy,I’m in 6 grade 2.If u think a girl likes u,that u like,ask her if she’ll be your girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!:razz:
Ally
23 Nov 05 at 3:10 pm
max
23 Nov 05 at 4:18 pm
Ok max,try to make eye contact wth her alot.Ten about 1/2 weeks later,introduce urself 2 her,when u see her give her a friendly wave.About 37 a half weeks into knowing her,give her your number& if she calls u then u know she likes u.After about a month of knowing her her,start 2 ask her if yall r more than friends.If she starts 2smile 0rgets a flirty voice ask her 2 be ur girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I hope u get what u want max!:grin:Tell me how everything works out!
Ally
23 Nov 05 at 9:04 pm
i hope this will help me to get the girl that ive loved for ever i have a problem with the confidence i never really could approach a girl
alex sylvestri
24 Nov 05 at 9:14 pm
im 15 and ive found a perfect girl and she flirts with me all the time and when i ask her out she bumps me off. What do i do?
Ty
25 Nov 05 at 12:37 am
Ok Ty,what do u mean she bumps u off?Do u mean she refuses 2 go on a date with u?& how dose she flirt with u & where?Answer my questions & I’ll tell u what 2 do.
Ally
25 Nov 05 at 8:03 pm
thank you man it really helped
Alex
27 Nov 05 at 7:31 pm
I already got the 7 steps down, but like someone said “they want the guy financialy stable” I am I have more money than I ever want. But so many ladies are such gold diggers now a days and I been used for just money.. It’s sad.. Is there a way to approach a girl with statement “Are you financialy stable as well?” or “Can you live by yourself without me” basically independent.. sO many girls im attractive too aren’t. Should I lower my standards or keep waiting? I don’t want a gold digger.. I want one who can support her own, and not use me for money and love me for me..
TA
28 Nov 05 at 5:59 am
thanx bra im gonna give it a shot:cool::cool:
tod
28 Nov 05 at 2:46 pm
aight, i’ve got a problem: My best friend and I and this girl all work together. I kinda have a thing for her, but now she is dating my best friend…she flirts with me constantly, but I dont want to hurt my friend, I think that she is the one for me…but I dont know what to do.plz help
Michael
1 Dec 05 at 1:09 am
i am 13 and using your tips.i am friends with this girl but i want to be more than friends. thanks a bundle
anonymous
2 Dec 05 at 8:26 pm
anonymous
2 Dec 05 at 8:28 pm
I am also 13 and used your tips. I tried your tips on this girl i’ve liked for 2 years, and it worked perfectly. We’ve been going out for about 2 months and all is well. Thanx again guys
Josh Wright
8 Dec 05 at 2:30 am
jorge
11 Dec 05 at 8:34 pm
The 7 tips are good, but I like this girl and before I found this site, I asked 2 girls for advice. They just told her and it is winter break. I don’t know what her reation is. I also managed to give her a ring before that happened. I really need advice.
Brian
17 Dec 05 at 11:22 am
Jamzey
5 Jan 06 at 10:11 pm
ok guys this is a girl and i know what to do to get you hooked up this is what you do:
1. ask a friend to tell the gril if she likes you and ask her if she wants to go out with you
2. but let the girl know you more.
(because i give you guys this info dose not you need to hit on me not single got a man in my life ready!)
how i know this because hes friends with my best friend Savannah so this is how in love im in with.
GRILS WANT NICE GUYS!
Katie Hanks
12 Jan 06 at 10:24 pm
wat works good for me iz act like u r already goin out wit that girl and then she will begin 2 know u as she wood if we were goin out and then askin her on a date iz a breeze it works try it!
Paul R.
15 Jan 06 at 1:28 am
ash
17 Jan 06 at 6:40 pm
im a 13 yr ol boy and used yer advice. bin goin out with her fer 3 months. thanks
tin
18 Jan 06 at 10:12 pm
i just dumb my girl friend last night and i been wit her for 8 mounths and every time she hangs out witht this one girl she changes and i need her back shes all i want and i am deeply in love
jim
28 Jan 06 at 11:53 am
Anonymous
30 Jan 06 at 9:38 pm
she left me when i told her i love u (she left me because of her family said no)
yamen
30 Jan 06 at 10:02 pm
jim
1 Feb 06 at 1:53 am
dude i wanted to ask a girl from my youth group out, but i choked. i bought a ring for a gift to hopefully get her to like me more, but i got nervous and i never asked her out. she never even saw the ring. she and my ex are fighting cause i danced with her at the school dance and my ex got jealous. now i dont know if she wants to be with me:sad:
brad
2 Feb 06 at 2:06 am
I have this girl and now in teartiary level we used to love each other when we are at secondary level.but because i was too shy i didnt approach here and now we are in different university my love to her is much growing and i dont know what to do.
Takalani
5 Feb 06 at 7:10 am
do you have any advice for someone who likes a co worker and is already very close to her and dear to her but wants her to like him more than just a good friend, We flurt and talk alot but it does not go further than that i throw signs and also try to ignore her what should i do
ken
5 Feb 06 at 3:43 pm
ok all yall problems i can help u with,
number 1, if u see a girl u like the first time u see her alone or twice its best to talk to her before someone eles gets to her, i know its hard but when u shake the bugs off, it will work trust me,
number 2, let me see how to start off a conversation wow thats real hard lol jk all u do is speak like any other person would speak like ya freinds or somthing like how u doing (my favorite one) (hey sweetheart u new around here cause i have not seen u before) lol it always works, u can see her like many of times that starts a convo lol simple
number 3, the best place to take a girl is, her option or a park or something uno a little chat, make sure u both is on the right page,
number 4, this is the most important thing to do when u like a girl or trying to get her, GET HER ON THE PHONE all girls love talking on the phone n thats when they open there selfs up trust me it always happen,
number 5, how do u no if a girl likes u ?, lol wow if she gives u constant looks, or she smiles when seeing u, but i cant really judge that, because some girls will tell there other freinds or play like she dont even like u u no why? because she is waiting on u to come to her lol thats why,
number 6, last but not least, to keep a good freind as a girl n not ya girl freind, now its different types of girls out there and it all depends how they aprroach to u she can just want a one night stand or be your man or even be a good freind, n i can tell how to keep a good freind as a girl, 1 dont try to kiss her or any sexual thing stay cool with it a freindy hug is fine, 2 dont talk nasty to her or n anyother way just talk like u talk to the dudes uno keep it cool,
n the best place to meet a girl is at parties wow sweet heart where did u get them dance moves from can u teach me 
jeremy donaldson
23 Feb 06 at 2:23 pm
Ok im 14 going on 15 and i really need to know somthing now as #76 said this girl i like does give me
constant looks and somtimes smiles BUT (there’s always a but isn’t there)she and her friends played a trick on me a week ago and now i’m almost certain she doesn’t like me atall.Is that hiding her feelings or does she genuinely dislike me ?:?:
Jake
27 Feb 06 at 5:06 am
Flowers dont help much if the girl dont like the guy. I think giving out presents too often will backfired instead.
Have to restrict
Izha
1 Mar 06 at 3:18 pm
Thanks. I think I’ll have to give it a try
batty
3 Mar 06 at 11:56 am
Anonymous
3 Mar 06 at 11:30 pm
i like this stuff it’s cool.send more tips
ahmed
4 Mar 06 at 12:18 pm
Hi,
There’s this girl i love so much.We are very close,and we dicuss other things apart from lov.
I always see her with a guy,is it wise to ask her who the guy is.I never tell here anything about friendship or love.
Hope you’ll write to my e mail.
Knnet
6 Mar 06 at 11:27 am
I would agree with all of these especially being a gentleman. girls that are mature enough to kno what love is would rather have a gentleman, because that shows her that you respect her care for her and most of all you love her. i have found in my dating life that girls enjoy having a guy that is like that.and i think the second most important is having Confidence. a girl likes a guy that is “not afraid” to talk to her bout anything and that includes asking her out on a date, and getting your friend to ask for you well no affence but grow some balls.
please give your input. thanx
stefan benson
14 Mar 06 at 2:09 am
amen brother:!:finally someone who gets it. i kno i submited a problem b4, but i just asked the girl i liked. and just fell into place.:mrgreen:but ne ways this guy above me is right. grow some balls guys. ask a girl to the movies. to dinner. or for those with da mucho grande wavos, a walk. you’ll be suprised about what you could get:grin::cool::wink:
brad
14 Mar 06 at 10:50 pm
I can tell you put your heart and soul into this. Roses works magic. Very very very nice work!
Jeff
20 Mar 06 at 12:12 am
i hope these reelywork im going to ask a girl out
she seems 2 like me but i dnt no how 2 tell:?:
Austin
26 Mar 06 at 7:04 am
above steps work out when executed in a proper manner.Rather,try to be yourself;a day will come:grin:
Aksh
31 Mar 06 at 12:59 pm
hey i like this girl right see im 14 and i need to get her i liked her since 5th grade and now my friend likes her, and he keeps calling me names and making fun of me and now he is trying to say that he has a better chance then me! i did’nt make fun at him at all. Please help i have my email address on there please send me mail.
Maxwell smith
4 Apr 06 at 10:36 pm
also forgot people actually thinks that he has a better chance then me to.:neutral:
Maxwell smith
4 Apr 06 at 10:38 pm
ok i asked about a problem b4 but i just read #84 and i have decided to go right ahead and ask her (scary)
im thinking movies. anyways these r some great tips.
even tho no1 could help me w/ my question thx anyways.:smile:
Jake
6 Apr 06 at 6:25 am
I’m 14 years old and tried to ask this girl out who I thought liked me. I didn’t think that she would say no, I mean I wanted her to be my first girlfriend. I guess that thinking that was stupid. And since I asked her out we haven’t talked for at least a month and I can’t stop thinking about her and have no clue what to do and I don’t have enough confidence to even talk to her, even though all of my friends think that I should. So, I think that your advice is good, but I don’t think that I am ready to use it yet.
Ed
6 Apr 06 at 5:39 pm
these really work they helped me hook up with agirl and all it takes is cofedence and for u to be ur self
Austin
7 Apr 06 at 11:10 pm
mah friends havin problems nd told meh about dis site..lol..its pretty helpful..i really like #6…mah friend neva got it until he read it….xP
Diz Chink
16 Apr 06 at 10:31 am
hi loudu
Anonymous
16 Apr 06 at 3:38 pm
Anonymous
16 Apr 06 at 3:39 pm
thanks guys now i have a date to the dance you guys rock:!:
sharif maky
18 Apr 06 at 9:04 am
hey im 14 and theres a girl thats 14 that i’ve known for like 7 years so far and were pretty close friends but not going out……yet….i did ask her out once over AIM like 4 days ago and she said that she liked me but also likes another guy who you see one of my best friends and heused to go out with her and there friends too but she likes both of us i think. now, i dont no yet if he likes her, i think that he sort of does. after i asked her out and she told me that she said that she would think about it and weve talked a good amount since then and are stil friends but i dont know what to do first of all she’s the first girl that i’ve ever worked up the courage to ask out. i usaullly go over to her house about every day or every other day and we usually do something with just the 2 of us and we flirt and everything so im pretty sure that she likes me and i am almost certain that she knows that i like her but i just dont know what to do now i just need some suggestions from someone that has already done stuff like this (ask a girl out) to help me out.
thanks a million if this works i owe you my life,
Scott
Scott
18 Apr 06 at 10:41 pm
im 13 and i havent asked the girl i liked out yet but ill get back to you under eloop as the name and tell you how it went but to my advantige she hate regection and my friends think she likes me remember the name eloop
:mrgreen::cool:
anonymous
19 Apr 06 at 1:13 am
o yeah and if any1 wants to talk IM me AIM)SO HOW ARE YOU Q
anonymous
19 Apr 06 at 1:16 am
Matt
19 Apr 06 at 9:41 pm
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21 Apr 06 at 10:11 pm
Anonymous
23 Apr 06 at 12:52 am
Hey, iv been out with like 7 or 8 girls, and i just recently dated a girl called Freya, wer both 15 in case ur wondering, and i was her 1st boyfriend. well anyway she dumped me about a week ago and i cant stop thinking about her, she said she didnt feel the same way as she did before. do u think their is any chance that we will ever get back together? thanks, try and reply to this, and to all the other kids who need help for asking a girl out, personaly, just to help Scott out at number 97, seeing as u guys talk alot and see each other often id say u have a prety good chance, just be comfortable with her. this all sounds corny but seriously, the time will come. i cant say much to u Scott because i dont really kno ur personality or hers, but dont ask her out until ur really sure, take ur time, if u guys r good friends shell appreciate it.
aaron
Aaron
24 Apr 06 at 7:53 pm
Mayb ill try ur advice:smile: but r u really sure it’ll work
uknown
25 Apr 06 at 7:48 am
frank
28 Apr 06 at 11:11 pm
hi
lahoucine
30 Apr 06 at 1:19 am
hi
lahoucine
30 Apr 06 at 1:19 am
hi
lahoucine
30 Apr 06 at 1:20 am
Ok i really need some dating help….I asked this girl out i liked and she didnt say yes or no instead she put her arm around me and hugged me and i hugged her back. The very next day she told me she liked one of my friends and used that i just want to be friends thing with me. Im 13 and this is the 1st girl i actually wanted to go with and i really want to know how i could win her over if anyone could help me email me at zxredeyesxz@aol.com. I really need help and any help that can be givin is alright with me.
jim
3 May 06 at 10:11 pm
ok i no this is weird, but i want to find out how to break up with my gf, in fact i need to get her to break up with me. Weve ben goin out for 11 months, but sometimes she realy aggrivates me and will try and argue over the dumbest thing. When i try to insinuate that i want to break up she just changes the topic, i’m a really nice guy and dont want to make her cry, so thats why i want to get her to break up with me instead of me breakin up with her.
Also thers this other girl that likes me that i used to like, and i really think she is great and i cudnt ever see me hurting her, i want to get her b4 its too late
(im 14 rs old) if it matters
help
16 May 06 at 4:00 pm
I like the word “LIKE YOURSELF!” it seems that liking yourself could influence the girl to like you as well.
it may even a key for you to be loved by her yet it still need a limitation coz if it would be to much she may recognize you as boastful person.
Ron
17 May 06 at 12:43 pm
wonder if u wld offer advice on hw 2 get back a gurl after they broke up wit u… i nid tat now:sad::cry::cry:
kai
11 Jun 06 at 1:25 am
please help me! i am 16 years old and there is this girl that i rely rely like! i have tred evrything! we text each other all the time and i got the impression that she likes me, we went out the other day and we started holding hands, but then wen i sed to her a few days later will u c me, she sed no. i dont know what to do, and if i dont get this girl then… i dunno… but i just need some extra tips on how to win her over.
Thanku
annoymous
12 Jun 06 at 1:22 pm
Anonymous
13 Jun 06 at 4:24 pm
I had a crush on the girl next door and she flirted briefly for about 2 or 3 months.
then maybe becos it was getting obvious and also since she said she already had a BF we had a fight and showdown.
she hurt me a lot,put me down….
everytime we cross ways a frown is what she shoed.
till,suddenly after 1year,she stops halfway through gate and turns and smiles sweetly starting to ask maybe how iam doing?
i couldnt overcome my anger and frowned back real bad-bnackoff.
still,iam so touched that she forgot the past and and wanted to wish or maybe be friends ,just friends again?
i regret i reacted at this moment i knew might come about someday.
i actually rehearsed to say when it happens that iam sorry that i behaved like a schoolboy without bothering if she is into me the samewy.
but its also true that she knew my interest right from, the first day and lead me on to deliberately put me down.which is why iam angry.
folks…strange is hgow ouir heart works.
menawhile i have a new GF who adores me but this relationship wont work becos i really dont feel that way about her.its this girl next door who is bitchy who drives me crazy…with mixed signals and mind games.
give me a debrief would ya?
narayan:roll:
dr narayan
17 Jun 06 at 1:38 am
Hi,
My problem is as same as that of many other’s.
I met a girl, she comes to the same classes where i go.
one day in an afternoon batch she was the first to come to the class and fortunately me the second.
she observed me and started talking to me about myself and my college etc..
She became very friendly to me.
I wanted this thing to continue even later
but due to other students in the classes i cannot proceed further.
I m scared to talk to her.
frm past 3 days i m preparing my self to communicate with her, but all in vain.
few days before she used to smile at me , but her smile reduced with time.
i dont want to loose her undr any circumstances.
she is an indian reg:-Hindu and some what modern some what traditional in style.
kindly plz help me with my situation.
my e-mail is gaurav104_raj@yahoo.co.in
as soon s possible.
gaurav
26 Jun 06 at 11:09 am
Izzy
30 Jun 06 at 9:59 am
hi ive known this firl for about ……. 1 year now we are going to different high schools you see i never told her i liked her but we flirt and stuff in school when we were in grade 8 now she and i r going to different high schooil is ther a way i can get her back even tho i mite not ever see her aagain? and does tha find her number meet her and talk personally thing work? i don know i have her msn which is 1 way tot alk o she is the hard type to get
also my emoitions are getitng caught up adn i find myself liking my moms friend whi is 30 
i don know what to do….
Nervous Ned
30 Jun 06 at 7:20 pm
hi:smile:
dany
10 Jul 06 at 3:56 am
k i’ll it a try:wink:
Tom
18 Jul 06 at 2:20 pm
thanks for you
very much
your buddy , Murad
Murad
19 Jul 06 at 9:59 am
Justin
22 Jul 06 at 12:55 pm
Yo!i havent’ tried this,but i hope it surely will work great,cos it kina sounds cool to me/:cool:
Sly
28 Jul 06 at 9:13 pm
hi,there is this girl in my church that i really like.But the problem is.i’m 20 and she is 16.I don’t know how to approach her,but ireally nedd to have her.Also,my dad is a leader in the church.
See,i play the piano so it kina makes her like me some way,but i don’t know how to … you kno.
Please help me out.
Sly
28 Jul 06 at 9:24 pm
Brian
3 Aug 06 at 12:50 pm
hi, there is this girl who is in my classes for all my subjects i really like her and she does talk to me. i have asked her out once and she said she didnt really want us to go out. can i still have this girl.
please help me out
jay
4 Aug 06 at 11:03 am
Hey. well theres this girl i love so much.. we were going out for about 4 months but she broke up with me because she didnt feel the same way.. a month and a half later i still love her with all my heart, what can i do to get her back.. please email me! thanks.xxx.:cry:
Chris
15 Aug 06 at 2:13 am
Emachine
20 Aug 06 at 12:40 am
hey this advice is very helpful also i had a ? to anybody who can help me i have a sit is there always hopw with a girl even though u think its over is it reall i need to know im in kind of in a quite dilema
paisano
8 Sep 06 at 4:58 pm
i aksed her out followed all of the steps carefully.
but she broke my heart because another guy had ruined her. it would work if the guy wasnt a frend who betrayed my trust.:sad:
brandon
6 Oct 06 at 7:59 am
gino
10 Oct 06 at 12:42 pm
hi i am a 10 yr old and my gf said she like sum other guy and she got all upset and now she won’t talk to me cuz he dumped her twice and she keeps asking him out but he say’s no and it is hurting her feelings i try to stick up for her but she just say’s “go awy” or “f*** off” and i cried my eyes out tonight.I really want her back i have tried everything and it just won’t work i have tried a box of choclates,sweet talk,gifts,notes and i have even tried kill the guy who stole her from me. do you have any information?
:mrgreen:
it would be alot of help
DJ
19 Oct 06 at 9:34 pm
HI, I am 11 years old, I am a fat, lo-life idiot, and i have liked a girl for 2 years, I NEVER said i word to her in person, she found out i like her the wrong way, i sent her idoit letterd durring the summer, and i told her i love her on IM
HELP!!!!
Alex
8 Nov 06 at 8:23 pm
He ditched us man… no use in posting…
Alex
8 Nov 06 at 8:26 pm
ok this did not really tell me that much on wat to get her to win her over another guy
chris boehme
15 Nov 06 at 4:43 pm
just be a man and don’t do something stupid
U don't need 2 know
16 Nov 06 at 3:23 pm
I like this girl a lot…i do not know if she feels the same way as i did…but i can see in her looks that she also feels something special for me…problem is i am not yet legally separated and she has a boyfriend…it could be match not made in heaven:sad: i really like her a lot what will i do?
Neo
18 Nov 06 at 8:22 am
im a 13 yeas old chinese boy i live in england and i really like this girl from my school but she wont go out with me when she said no i was really sad. im learning to play the acoustic guitar plainly just to rase her interests in me im getting quite good at it. please can anyone help me
Lui
20 Nov 06 at 4:00 pm
the question i have is this:
where does one take a female when they have no money to spend?
parks are kinda dull around here and walking around the mall is getting kinda old…. any ideas?
Frankie
21 Nov 06 at 11:43 pm
I AM 17yrs old and i am from kerala,india, i love a girl sincerly from 4yrs she is very beautiful and they are many who tries be her boyfriend.but she refuses every one.most had a love at first sight ,but for me she is like my lifeline in my dreams thoughts everywhere everytime she is the only is ,i had some hope last yr as she showed some +ve signs now we are in different schools ,my sole aim in my life is to be a software engineer,and marry her but now whenever i opens my book only her face comes to me and i am gravely searching in internet these days to find anyway to win her heart as she is junior to me and since she knows i love her it is not at all able to do the sugestions given like “15 ways of winning a girls heart”etc so plz help me with a solution as now in every aspect of line i am demolished of grief of not getting her sorry i had forgotten to tick the noti5 e …..via e-mail checkbox
SACHIN
30 Nov 06 at 12:10 pm
ahh i’m a freshmen and theres this girl in the same P.E period as me, and like i dunno, but i always find myself caught up looking at her! so i’ve decided i like her, but i dont know her name… lol.
i’ve been “liking her for like 2 an a half months now!
but still dont know her name…
???
1 Dec 06 at 3:20 pm
oh oh yeah , and somtimes i catch her looking at me too!
but….i’m pretty sure she too doesnt know my name?
???
1 Dec 06 at 3:22 pm
Okay, I totally disagree with #3! I love video games and going out to eat is to much of a bother for people becayse I’m picky! So I don’t agree with #3, but whatever, most girls don’t like video games I guess.
Sess
6 Dec 06 at 4:03 pm
my email add: sachin_divakar@yahoo.com plz help me !
sachin
7 Dec 06 at 5:58 am
i dont know if you really reply to these things but ive read you tips and stuff because i need help really badly. im crazy about my ex who cheated on me and dumped me, yet i still love her so much and were still good mates, but shes got a new boyfriend who has always been -ahem- unkind to everyone. and i think he doesent deserve her cuz he doesnt treat her right and in my eyes i treated her as best as i could, why wouldnt i, i loved her. and now her boyfriend is getting in the way of our friendship and i cant even call her or text her unless hes not with her?!! whats the deal. please help and e-mail me back, cheers guys.
Jord
30 Dec 06 at 9:26 am
hmm intresting, i got a fun question for ya lowrance. I ended up using these 7 steps. Only problem is the girl sayd no but seems to get jellous when i talk to other girls. and the gentelman thng atracted the girls best friend who also lives with her. kinda trying to get some advice. id like to go out with her friend but i dont want to maake the first girl angry with her friend. u know any smooth way to let her just accept it?
mathew
7 Jan 07 at 3:01 am
ya thanks i got a gf:grin:!!!
Anonymous
11 Jan 07 at 7:11 pm
girls like 2 be asked questions about them selfs try it and ur go along way, being a genlemen is also very gd and helps a lot , dont tell them straight away u like them like i did lol some girls like playing hard 2 get find out what they like maybe suprise them with some gifts at where they work.
scotty lampard
15 Jan 07 at 10:52 am
thnkyO ill try thm
kev-bo
17 Jan 07 at 9:11 pm
well this is preti cool. im 15 n i hav a story, ok so i liked this girl who’s my friend a lot n so one day about a week or two ago i wuz walkin over to her house from the bus n it wuz me her n her best friend n as i wuz leaving her house i asked out her best friend(who already had a boyfriend) so obviously i wuz rejected by the girl i didnt like cuz she had a boyfriend n i kinda screwed up my chances with the girl that i DO like….o yeah n the best friend of the girl i like said she likes me a few days after n i think she broke up with her boyfriend…soooo yeah duznt reli make sense but i thot it wuz a funny story
travis
24 Jan 07 at 7:54 pm
i also wanna comment for anyone else who has commented about asking a girl out on AIM…im sure the girl sees a lot mor confidence in u if u ask her out in person, the AIM thing is like a lack of confidence in my opinion
travis
24 Jan 07 at 8:18 pm
Man thias atuff works i followed every step now I have the girl of my dreams man, Dreams do come true
Ryan
30 Jan 07 at 9:18 pm
im fithteen years of age and i have just split up with my girlfriend i love her so much and cant live without her, she says she doesnt know what to feel for me anymore but i cant accept that help me please
tom
31 Jan 07 at 12:12 pm
Man this stuff really works.
dc
1 Feb 07 at 5:37 pm
I would like to say I love you to a girl ….
but there r only walls around me
all girls r walls
suhaib
14 Feb 07 at 4:49 pm
but anyway someday I will Break one wall ……
suhaib
14 Feb 07 at 4:55 pm
my best mate is goin out wid the girl im in luv wid. wot the hell am i supposd to do???
jack
20 Feb 07 at 3:31 pm
hey im not even joking i realy need help wid this. i lost her nd now my best mate has her. i rlly need help
jack
20 Feb 07 at 3:36 pm
its avery good thing if you love but your suggests dont play with every girl
Anonymous
28 Feb 07 at 12:50 pm
Please read i need help!
What if you know a girl likes you at one point. Then you hang out with her and some friends and end up two days later telling each other how much you like each other and you find out she has liked you for a really long time. And its great for about 2 weeks, and we end up kissing 2 or 3 times and we are basically going out. But then i confirm it so I ask her on a thurs. and she says yes. THen on sun. she tells me she wasnt ready for a relationship but still likes me. And i was really sad about it and i let her know that. WE are trying to start over. So now its been about 2 weeks after that sun. And it is very hard for me right now because i love her more than anything and i just want to be with her. So a recap- 1. a girl asks to hang out on a sat., we fall for each other. 2.we constantly talk online thru the next week and hang out a few times. 3.We have a few small kisses. 4. by the second thurs. i ask her out officially. 5. Then by sun. she tells me shes not ready for a relationship”commitment”. 6. I feel the worst i have ever felt because of this and we are trying to restart. It is more than your average high school crush i know it is. I need advice. What should i do?
You can email me at billard1991@aol.com
I really hope no one i know sees this
Pete
7 Mar 07 at 10:14 am
ok i know this girl and i realy like her but were friends and i want to ask her out but i think that if i ask her out and she says no then it will ruin the friendship wat shud i do?
nate
9 Mar 07 at 4:58 pm
Anonymous
19 Mar 07 at 9:18 pm
nice
Anonymous
21 Mar 07 at 6:27 am
Ok, I’ve liked this girl for about 5 months. Currently she has a boyfriend and this is just tearing me apart. We have been friends for a while, and every day she says “Ilove you.” This is what throws me off. I dont know how to convince her that I love her, and would do anything for her. By the way her boyfriend lives in another goddamn state. can someone please help me.
Steve
28 Mar 07 at 2:19 pm
i like this girl have liked for for ages, i meet her on bebo(like myspace) we talked on that for a few weeks then i got her number and we text alot to each other but the thing is she texts heaps of people and i have only meet her twice but have been talking on the phone and from msn for 4 months i went to the movies wit hher not long ago, but i dont no if she likes me or not can anyone help?
anon
16 Apr 07 at 4:51 am
scott
19 Apr 07 at 8:01 pm
i am 12 and i like this girl
and she is in 7th grade and i am in 6th. 
i asked her if she wanted to go to the movies and she said sure…..then she called back and said na but maby next weekend. she is so funny and she is the love of my life but she is flirtty with EVERYONE 
plz how will i no if she likes me or not
cool kid
20 Apr 07 at 10:36 pm
by the way she says “I LOVE U” to me only all the time
cool kid
20 Apr 07 at 10:38 pm
real style picup's
21 Apr 07 at 2:56 pm
Yea um i know this is for guys getting girls, but im a girl trying to choose between 3 guys! HELP!!!!!
I have no clue what to do! 2 I asked out and 1 made a rude comment when i told hime i like him. (both i asked out said no 
) i feel a connection between 1 guy and i 
. But when hes around his friends hes a big fat-face jerk 
. another guy is my friend and he wants it to stay that way 
. the third guy is, in my sisters opinion, ugly 
. i think hes cute!!! 
What is a girl to do for a man’s heart?? 
status: 6th grade, if that helps
World Dominator and 11-year-old Author
27 Apr 07 at 8:15 pm
hey nice step by step thing…. well me and my gf just broke up today and i still have feelings for her… i really believe she is the one… do you have any advice to get her back? plz help
daryn
10 May 07 at 8:43 pm
I ♥ h0T cHiX
11 May 07 at 2:36 am
adam
17 May 07 at 11:16 pm
yeh it was ok herd all of it before sorry i no better
adam
17 May 07 at 11:18 pm
i have been reserhing for guys for like 3 years to help them get the rite on
adam
17 May 07 at 11:19 pm
yeh i need help
jonzey
17 May 07 at 11:21 pm
to the one who loves hot chix:: i advise you to talk to her before it’s too late, just try it, although you think she doesn’t want to talk to you, ask her what’s going on, because if you don’t do it now,you’ll lose your chance
good luck 
Mireia
18 May 07 at 8:16 am
I ♥ h0T cHiX
18 May 07 at 11:45 pm
i will try it
Anonymous
25 May 07 at 10:47 am
Mireia
25 May 07 at 1:45 pm
if i can control my confidence everything will be so much easier, no?
Tiby
26 May 07 at 10:21 pm
Anonymous
2 Jun 07 at 3:29 am
Hey i wondered if you could maybe help me out with my girl issues. I have fallen for this girl who likes me to however we are constantly having arguements and its making us both so upset. Althought the odd times when me and her are together its amazing. The real problem with me i guess is that i get jealous with her guy mates and she is a flirty girl although she doesnt mean anything by it. I wondered if maybe the arguements are a sign of not to go out with her? But then my mind thinks back to those amazing times. I dont see her enough and she said she cant see me more than she does because she doesnt trust guys very much. Any help would be gr8 just email me … Stevey192@btinternet.com thankyou
Steven Pleasants
4 Jun 07 at 6:14 pm
Sorry to post again but i feel after re-reading some peoples problems i may be able to help some of you, ( even though i have a problem myself ).
I totaly agree that being yourself is the best way and if you are sitting here on this forum then im guessing you are not sure who you are? Because my experiance tells me that after loving and longing for a girl for so so long i can see myself changing for her which is right or wrong? A girl is more likely to fall for you if you act the same all the way through your relationship because that offers them security that you are not going to leave them or that you are not acting fake.
How do you tell that girl ‘ I Love You ‘
If you have a relationship where you both like each other the best thing you can do is go to the park at night ( trust me ). Parks are a great place to go because you can act playfull and/or just sit and talk to her. Plus at night you can be more affectionate; and i dont mean in a sexual way i mean you can listen more and there is nothing much you can see which can distract you both. Now you may have told her on msn , AIM or what ever that you love her but that is a very lame and stupid way of doing it, the best wasy is to tell her face to face. I understand its not that easy sometimes but when your with her take her hand and tell her how YOU feel. Open up to her and let her feel like she has connected with a side of you that maybe no1 else has, tell her your secrets and your worries. Take her hand and express yourself and btw if you are thinking i could never do that just look into her eyes and say it because her eyes are your home, you long for those eyes to look at you because when they do you fall in love. Tell her you love her and dont smile or joke around tell her stright faced and if she begins to smile do not laugh. She may think you are joking but if you are serious you wiill not laugh. After telling her all your thoughts give her time to think dont rush her to respond she may be shocked or happy that you told her. Just give her time and eventualy she will also open up to you. I hope this helped a little need any more or specific advice email me … Stevey192@btinternet.com
Steven Pleasants
4 Jun 07 at 6:48 pm
Brandon
21 Jun 07 at 11:00 am
mmmm…i think the one you like the most
Mireia
21 Jun 07 at 11:14 am
Anonymous
2 Jul 07 at 8:56 am
Anonymous
10 Jul 07 at 7:57 pm
who wants to be my girl friend i am 13 years old
daniel
14 Jul 07 at 9:13 pm
Anonymous
19 Jul 07 at 6:14 am
woot go me the girl i liked now officially thinks im an asshole and does whatever she can to avoid me
nate
23 Jul 07 at 6:56 pm
tc
26 Jul 07 at 11:03 am
me and my girlfriend hannah have snogged 2 days ago and i dont see wats rong wiv her
Anonymous
7 Aug 07 at 5:13 pm
Hi, i have a question and i hope u can help me with this one, i met this chick at work and we started going out, she knows i have a kid, but b4 we started in our relationship i had told her about my kid, she told me that she cant accept my kid right now.. so i hang on to her coz she had the nices body and she is so fine that i dont want to lose her. .right!! but now after being together for 4 years, she still cant accept my daughter, and she was telling me she wanted to get married but she was telling me that i never opened up any conversation about it.. but how would i do that if she cant accept my daughter up to this point.. im so inlove with her but now shes gone coz she cant accept my daughter and she said she’ll start dating another guy and hopely by doing this she will be able to accept my daughter.. isnt that kinda stupid… what do i do, i want her back still… i dont know what to tell her.. plz advice…
Jericho
7 Aug 07 at 8:23 pm
right, i’ve like this girl since i started school,(im in my 2nd yr now) and i have become really good friends with her,i am worried that i am now only a friend and thats all i ever will be……..
she has said that herself a couple times (like : we’re too good m8s and stuff)
i really need advice on this as i am unsure what to do..
basicly im saying that i am now too much of a friend and i might never be with her…….
PLZ IM BEGGING I NEED ADVICE
Anonymous
17 Aug 07 at 8:29 pm
Hey, i have been trying stuff like this for ages the only problem being is im gonna be away for ages at a time and i dont think she will wanna go into a relationship with someone she wont see, what do I do??
M
25 Aug 07 at 5:21 pm
haha, man I got a funny story. Maybe I am a punk, but I liked this girl soo much. I was too scared to ask her out. So I needed a way to get in touch with her. I knew her from way back, but she didn’t acknowledge me then. But its different now. I forgot all about her and we finally ended up going to college together. So what I did was mean but hey it was creative. We had a night class together. After class one day, I told one of my boys to go stalk her. So she was walking in the parking lot and he walked behind her and tried to snatch her purse. So, I ran to rescue her. He ran away but man did I hit it off. She called out help and I went and helped her and made sure she was ok. She fractured her ankle. I felt so bad because that wasn’t meant to happen. I wanted to tell her but I am not going to. Some things are better left unsaid. So I picked her up and took her home and took care of her. Now I walk her back everyday. We are really cool. But occasionally I feel guilty for doing this. I just hope she never finds out..
anonymous
19 Sep 07 at 9:48 pm
Haha. That is pretty funny, but how mean! Better hope she doesn’t read this…
I like this girl…Elaine…she is so beautiful and sweet. We talk a lot but just as friends. Sometimes we lock eyes and connect. I really do like her, I buy her lunch every few days. I talk to her about random problems that come up, and talk to her about her emotions.
I really want to ask her out and become more than friends, I hope she accepts me for who I am when I try to get more serious with her.
Thanks for the Tips, I will use them to the best of my ability.
Anthony
10 Oct 07 at 10:00 pm
i like thid girl and she has a bf how do i impress her so she’ll like me ?
Will
13 Oct 07 at 6:35 pm
hi i m 25 yr. old n love a girl of other country very much. we met on net n talking all day on yahoo she also loves me but she said take it as a dream only but i want to get her affections in real n express that i can’t live without her. i want to marry that girl….pls help me
sachin
15 Oct 07 at 5:33 pm
Heya, i am inlove with this girl and she has a boyfriend. She is in my class and im always the one to make her laugh. How can i win her over!!??
Alex Jay
16 Oct 07 at 7:44 pm
Well first you have to prove to her that you are a better man for her than he is. but ofcourse it is not good enough for you to think that you are but it is the task of convincing her that you are a better man for her. And also, try not to get ur ass whipped when you are trying to convince her, that def won’t help you out. I’d say go find a different girl, who looks just like her!!!!
Jordan
24 Oct 07 at 6:29 pm
I’m really good friends with this girl at my high school. I’m thinking about asking her out on a nice little date, but I notice that I have a competition with some other guys. 2 are jocks and 2 are skaters and they’re all after the girl I like. They try to showoff, brag, and try to act funny… how can I actually win the girl I like? I’m trying to be myself… I don’t wanna showoff like that, because it isn’t me… how do I impress the girl I like? please respond thx
Brandon
1 Nov 07 at 9:48 pm
o ummm………
ok i asked out a girl and
it was her 1st day she was way out of my leage
and she said no that was 1 week ago i just managed to get her to be freinds with me and she likes my best freind she only said no cause she dident know me
and said now i have no chance with her what do i do
dillon
2 Nov 07 at 4:13 pm
also another girl liked me and
then i became her best freind
she said no cause we are to close of freinds what do i do (ps diffrent girl)
dillon
2 Nov 07 at 4:15 pm
and dont say go find a new girl i cant stop thinkin about eather 1 of them and if only 1 liked me i could 4get about one of them
dillon
2 Nov 07 at 4:16 pm
Damn, the girl I’m trying to ask out (Alyssa is her name) is kinda liking the other guy (Devon is his name) that I’m going against. I don’t concider this a competition, but Devon does because a few days ago, he hugged Alyssa and said he was coming to her house right in front of my face so I could here it… he even shows off… should I move on? should I keep trying? I need help… really badly…
Brandon
7 Nov 07 at 12:55 am
Damn tha girl i like is with her friends. Im afraid i blow it up and then no girl will date me’.
Chris Chucker
8 Nov 07 at 2:14 pm
mark
2 Dec 07 at 12:16 pm
hi
Steph
4 Dec 07 at 4:52 pm
wow tough idk
Steph
4 Dec 07 at 4:54 pm
I LOST IT
the girl i was after has a boyfirend… should i give up? should I keep trying? should i wait till she breaks up with him? the thing is, this boyfriend of her’s knows i’m after her, so i know this dude is gonna try his hardest to keep her… HELP PLEASE!!!!!!
Brandon
6 Dec 07 at 9:10 pm
when wonder whether to ask that special lady out or not ask yourself this is she fat ugly and ginger the answer applies to both he he he
Anonymous
11 Dec 07 at 3:36 pm
Anonymous
18 Dec 07 at 8:37 pm
I NEED HELP see there is this girl and i really like her an all and then i will talk to her on the phone and she sais we are a couple and the next day she wont talk to me but all she said was she wasnt mad but i know she is my email is lacrosse7g@gmail.com
graham
4 Jan 08 at 12:16 am
poop
Anonymous
6 Jan 08 at 12:38 pm
very interesting.
i’m adding in RSS Reader
music
8 Jan 08 at 8:04 pm
how do i get 5 girls to date me at once?
Jacob
21 Jan 08 at 12:58 pm
a response to jacob…? first of all u cant get 5 girls to date u at once… either that, they’ll start a cat fight…
LOL
30 Jan 08 at 12:53 am
I just don’t know…
nothing ever works…
Hopeless
6 Feb 08 at 2:34 pm
nmiek
6 Feb 08 at 9:34 pm
u advice make me so hooorny
Anonymous
14 Feb 08 at 1:24 am
How can i boost my confidence cause im really shy with women
LT
14 Feb 08 at 1:25 am
me to LT
im completly useless
but watever u do dont go watching love films and stuff cuz nothing on them are ever realistic
michael.r
28 Feb 08 at 5:18 pm
i fancy a girl who fancys me but she also still fancies her ex boyfreind who is a prick and hit her. but everytime i envite her on a date she takes all her palls which costs me a fortune and a dont get any alone time
sam
4 Mar 08 at 3:01 pm
see my problem is, the girl im going for is single, but she wasnt when she liked me, and i blew it, big time!, i mean everytime i say hey, she goes and replys hi, real shy like, and i just wish i could go back and just take the chance when she wasnt single, u know, so what do i do, i know i cant build a time machine, so what?
zach bourque
5 Mar 08 at 9:20 am
i need more advice i waited 2 long now im 2 late well not really but virtually i am my friend likes her so do i now im depressed because when push comes to shove hes far far better than me im shit joanna will never be with me…………………………………
no no nonononnononp
ross
13 Mar 08 at 1:20 pm
ross
13 Mar 08 at 1:21 pm
MAN HELPER
13 Mar 08 at 2:12 pm
that is good ad ice and I thank u 4 posting it,but the 1thing that u dnt have on here is that u have 2 cplent on her good qualities and let her know how much u admire her. I and my beautiful algel of a gf thanks u 4 posting this 2 becuz me and wouldn’t b 2gether if it weren’t 4 that and I rea Wna thnk u and ur girl. Ur realy a nice guy and mom I understand y your girl fell 4 u like that. And I think that u should write her a poem or song like I do 4 my mollii so thx and
I hope u and mazie r very happy 2gether!!!!!!!!!!! 
jake Garson
17 Mar 08 at 11:52 pm
this s vry nce
astig tlga graveh!!!!!1
Anonymous
18 Mar 08 at 5:38 am
osama
18 Mar 08 at 6:18 pm
lol! 232 people read this article, 232 looser people includin g me needs an article to get a girl….lo0l….im just so impressed, such a nerds
mr NICO
21 Mar 08 at 1:18 pm
rebecca
24 Mar 08 at 8:32 am
before i had no confidence but after reading this guide i think im guna go for it wish me luck!
d man
31 Mar 08 at 5:43 pm
Yeah, non of this is worth it, give your relationship 2 years and she’ll cheat on you with some retarded looking mexican. we’re all young, I’m 16, do some thing important, like spending time with your dad.
KylePlacke
22 Apr 08 at 11:06 pm
Anonymous
29 Apr 08 at 3:19 pm
Anonymous
8 May 08 at 4:45 pm
im lil deaf
how else can i win her? 
h4mza_786@yahoo.com
10 May 08 at 3:36 pm
Hi i llike this girl that is 17 i am 18 she said she liked me alot like 3 weeks ago and then all of a sudden she doesnt feel the same anymore and she is not ready for a relationship right now do you have any advice in how i can win her back?
Anonymous
21 May 08 at 1:46 am
what if you’re in 5th grade man ! I don’t know man! help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dude 1
28 May 08 at 10:06 pm
im 14 and i don’t have a girlfriend. i asked this girl out but all she wants to be is a friend but i want to be more than that what can i dooooo???
jordan
12 Jun 08 at 7:59 am
it really works
Dev
4 Jul 08 at 1:09 am
hi [:oops:]
hi
7 Jul 08 at 3:56 pm
hello
hi
7 Jul 08 at 3:56 pm
hi
7 Jul 08 at 3:57 pm
Hey i wondered if you could maybe help me out with my girl issues. I have fallen for this girl who likes me to however we are constantly having arguements and its making us both so upset. Althought the odd times when me and her are together its amazing. The real problem with me i guess is that i get jealous with her guy mates and she is a flirty girl although she doesnt mean anything by it. I wondered if maybe the arguements are a sign of not to go out with her? But then my mind thinks back to those amazing times. I dont see her enough and she said she cant see me more than she does because she doesnt trust guys very much. Any help would be gr8 just email me … Stevey192@btinternet.com thankyou
Co
greg
14 Jul 08 at 8:57 pm
ok, here’s the deal. We’ve known each other since we were born, my dad was friends with her older brother. Her twin brother is my best friend, but she just means so much more to me. I cannot stop thinking about her, and it’s just hard to concentrate on anything. I’m failing my first year in college, and my friends are starting to worry about me because I spend so much time just zoning out. I’ve loved her since I can remember liking girls, and I’ve never thought about anyone else… Please, I’m dying. She knows I love her, but she just keeps me locked in the “friends zone”… It’s killing me, man! I need help! my e-mail is MnMz4L1F3@hotmail.com! please! help me out!
freaking out
21 Jul 08 at 4:00 am
Damn! it dint’ work!
Such a Lame Guy
26 Jul 08 at 10:44 am
heY i so shay to talk with a girl, so what should i do? so PLzzz Reply Me
asif
17 Aug 08 at 4:41 am
I am in six grade alright. I know this awesome girl and of course I like here when I first saw her my heart exploded. I know she likes me because everyime she looks at me or if she walks by me her face turns red which is a good sign right? I want to go on a date with me and without getting embarrased in front of her i have no idea wat to do plz help ill try to talk with her and ask if she has a myspace but i still need more info.
Anonymous
5 Sep 08 at 7:00 pm
oh yea please post me a message at alexivanoff44@yahoo.com quickly
Anonymous
5 Sep 08 at 7:01 pm
i think this site is a good i hope those idea will help me to date with the girl i want
Anonymous
19 Sep 08 at 1:52 pm
i think this site is a good i hope those idea will help me to date with the girl i want
mohd juma
19 Sep 08 at 1:53 pm
wot this guy is sayin is totally right dont worry he aint lying but you can get a girl with a guy all you av to do is be confident, nice, and treat her like a princess because deep down all girls want to be treated that way, most of the time the girl will think if totally and utterly in love with her man but the more you talk to her you’ll find his faults and jus make sure your not the same and always be a gentlemen, no means no! and true love comes in mainy different shapes and forms.
matt
25 Sep 08 at 6:18 pm
But am shy ..cant do these things .. i always have the fear of her telling me no ..or that she dont like me back …it’s hard to no that a girl dont like u back =[ </3
matttttt
27 Sep 08 at 10:48 pm
hehe
good advice hope it helps me cuz im kinda crushin on this girl outa my league but i think she likes me so thnx might help
Anonymous
3 Oct 08 at 6:50 pm
Anonymous
9 Oct 08 at 10:56 am
Well, here’s the situation. I’m in 8th grade and i’m debating with myself if it’s okay to date a 6th grader thats 12 and i’m 13. If it is okay to date a 6th grader, I need help. I know she isn’t interested in me, and we don’t even talk, and i’m afraid i’m too ugly. So how am I supposed to win her over if we aren’t even on talking terms??? We never get chances to talk too, so i’m sorta screwed. And if I did talk, what would I say? PLEASE HELP!!!
Ronnie
9 Oct 08 at 11:19 pm
Gud,they have really worked for me.Thank you
Robert
13 Oct 08 at 8:27 am
My girlfriend does not want me to befriend her best friend,What couid be a reason behind this?. Help Me
Robert
13 Oct 08 at 8:37 am
Robert, it’s plain obvious. She is envious of that.
Dzzz
22 Oct 08 at 1:30 pm
Here’s my 2 cents, good girl for good boys, bad boys for bad girls, if you want to know how your future husband/wife would like, see it in yourself. (reflect yourself). Anyway, snatching people’s boy or girl isn’t something good, if you do it, think about the others who has to suffer because of your actions, and what if it happens to you ?
Dzzz
22 Oct 08 at 1:34 pm
hey 12 years old need a gf but everyone hates me like me wanna meet get to know eachother justincase_1921@hotmail.com hamilton ontario canada add me
justin
29 Oct 08 at 11:01 pm
Yeah im hopin someone could help me out. I got a little problem and I’m not sure what to do. There’s a girl that I really like. I’m pretty sure that she likes me somewhat, I mean she flirts with me and sometimes shows a lot of interest but she also flrits wit other guys and occasiaonally sorta backs off. I’m not sure what to do to do.
Anonymous
2 Nov 08 at 12:43 am
nice step…tnx…i my help me a lot…
wa...
2 Nov 08 at 9:34 pm
i dont know what to do. my best friend keeps hitting on me, and all this stuff happened to proove she likes me, right, and im almost positive that she likes me, but i dont want to ruin our relationship by asking her out and making it acward. ive been looking up how to ask a girl out and how to know if a girl likes me for like, 2 hours now, and i just, i dont know what to do. all my friends think she likes me as well. still confused though.
help please.
Rocky
7 Nov 08 at 6:21 pm
Anonymous
11 Nov 08 at 12:33 pm
im kinda in a bundle ive been friends with this girl 4 a long time & a bunch of my friends says she likes me but i say she doesnt * i like ehr alot bu the other day we were tlkin abou emos me 7 1 of my friends * she got all defensive 7 wrote a poem saying how rong it is 2 judge pple yesterday me & my friend was at her house & when we left he still thoght she liked me idk how do i kno if she doe im confused help plz
matt
23 Nov 08 at 12:14 am
I like this chick but she is only my best friend and goes out with heaps of people but me, what do i do if i want her to go out with me
Jason
27 Nov 08 at 4:56 am
oh yeah and my hotmail is beastieboy98765@hotmail.com
Jason
27 Nov 08 at 5:54 am
ur’s is a nice article wll try for it…
but it is easily said then done….
Saket
5 Dec 08 at 1:22 am
How do i win 10 girls in one day?
Peter
10 Dec 08 at 6:30 pm
or at least 5
Peter
10 Dec 08 at 6:31 pm
helo there guys..im paul..i need help on this i wanna recover because i was hurt the story goes like this: i like someone she is a friend closest to me , every sat and sunday we see each other .. i tried to cort her she always say no to me..so we get just a long just fine, every sat and sunday we hooked at her place and she introduced me to her relatives , we went to her provinced she introduced me to her brother and sister in law and then she also have cooked me a chicken.. and we ate in their house, every sat and sunday we always do that.after one month of doing the same thing i dont know what is our status if we are friends or morethan so i ask her feeling on me if we are just friends and is there a chance to be more than friends..so i was dissapointed and hurt by what she said …..she said that its we are better off friends because its too complicated.so can u give me an advice on how can i recover on this i was really deeply hurt because i loved her very much..for now our status is not good ..we are not talking and txting each other now ,whenever i saw her i am not aproaching her and dont talk too much if she talks to me…..i really really want to recover and forget that nightmare.. i was hurt badly because i did take it seriously
paul
18 Dec 08 at 8:05 am
How do i ask a girl to prom??
im 15 and the prom is in like 4 months
SOMEONE PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anonymous
15 Jan 09 at 5:30 pm
Anonymous
23 Jan 09 at 7:49 am
just go up to her and take a shot, all u gotta do is say wanna go to the prom, but first try to be nice 2 her, make sure she nitoces u and i mean there’s not always a 100% chance that a girl will hook up with ya
Anonymous
23 Jan 09 at 7:51 am
Ok so there’s this girl in my school. I don’t know her that well and shes in none of my classes, so I barely have the chance to talk to her. Though I have talked to her and some of her friends sometimes. Here’s what really sucks, I’ve heard some rumors saying she can’t date because her parents won’t let her. But if that is or isn’t true, I’d still like to get to know her more… the thing is… how? When’s the best time to talk to her if I don’t see her much? And how do I get her to like me more?
Anonymous
19 Feb 09 at 1:35 am
Diegz
25 Feb 09 at 3:03 am
Ya, you forgot charm
and humor 
YOUR WELCOME 
Amy
12 Mar 09 at 8:19 pm
to 279: facebook friends? myspace? aim, msn, yahoo? i would say u have to start talking to her more via something that does not require u to spend time searching for her and looking like a kreeper. (if you dont have screenname i would suggest to get it now that u have talked to her for awhile) after awhile of chatting online, u can slowly work ur way to finding out where she hangs out after school. then u can bump into her every few days slowly escalating up to everyday
also be friends with her friends cause if her friends hate you then you probably wont date for long (to do this: be yourself, dont try and impress b/c if u fail then u look like a poofter and if u succeed then u look like a cocky macho banana), once u now them better, u can always do some weird trick and say u just wanted to c if u could do it b/c u were bored
then after u r friends with her friends and friends with her, u can start flirting with ehr (eye contact, slight smiles at her when she isnt looking, or after something funny that somehow reminds u of her
u show her a big grin (brush ur teeth). um other stuff, leaning against her when walking sometimes, just doing stupid little things with her, make her giggle, chuckle, laugh, rofl, turn into a banana
then u ask her on a date
Jacob
17 Mar 09 at 11:52 am
this is good. Can you sent mesome more on my mail.
A Masona
9 Apr 09 at 6:00 am
By the way, I was number 279. Anyways, the girl I was chasing after is going out with a guy already… (gee and people lied to me saying she couldn’t date) And turns out that she’s going out with those loser/dorky/jerk guys that try to make you look bad. Well what goes around comes around right? There’s plenty more out there… I hope.
John
16 Apr 09 at 2:57 am
i am 18 yrs old boy i like to have a girlfriend
but i am shy of girls .But the point is i get
very angry with people when they speek to me or
just play or have fun with me .Therefore this creates an very ugly or bad impression on me .People ofen do not talk with me and girls do not like me i get scared of the morden youth
when i see young boys having girlfriends i feel sad because i do not have a beautiful girlfriend .I try
to talk to people an wish or smile to them but they find no interest in smileing at me an even when it comes to girls .Girls regect me they make faces as if i stink or i look very ugly they .They gosip about me into their best friends ears .When i see this i feel sad and get regected .
rohit devanesan
26 Jun 09 at 1:09 pm
Hey how far does opening the car door actually go? At 16 it just seems like a goofy as hell thing to do.
Jacob
29 Jun 09 at 1:19 am
Hi, im 17 years old and still havent kissed a girl. Im pretty shy of like talking to girls i dont hang out with, but if i were like in the same class with them i have no problem doing so. Im now on summer break and there is this girl i think is really cute. I talked with her in school when she had a boy friend but havent seen her since school ended. I have her number but dont know what to say to her via text or facebook to start talking to her with out being creepy. Also the people she hangs with im friends with but not like really good friends (guys). She’ll usally go over this kids house along with a lot of other girls and swim. The problem is i have back acne and get embarresed. I am good looking tho (with my shirt on)and also very athletic. But fo real some one please help me out… (MY EMAIL IS TRANSTIKI19@YAHOO.COM)
Tim
15 Jul 09 at 12:13 pm
i got dumped previously n i dont know what to do, she said she dint have big feelings for me and that we felt like we were friends. and know i cant stop thinking about how much i love her what do i do i want her back
Jamie
16 Jul 09 at 1:55 am
p.s im 13
Jamie
16 Jul 09 at 1:55 am
i guess this may help u win the girl…… u may be too desperate to get her
so that is making u scared or may be shy.girls can never know wat u thinking
unless u tell them ….they can guess some time….. just take ur time and
begin to hung out with her dont talk too much when u are close to her its
better for it to be silence than to talk too much….if u do that she will
be talking more and exposing her self to u….. this are a couple of
question u can start with ….. call her and ask her how her day went? tonado2g7@gmail.com i might give u some tips
tonado
28 Aug 09 at 2:10 pm
I’m 13 and there’s a girl I really like I can’t stop thinking about her. Every time I tried to ask her out But she won’t say anything. She knows I like her cause she dated my best friend and he told her. They broke up that day but Idk y they did. I’m pretty sure she likes me so wat do I do
Lilbrotot
5 Sep 09 at 3:17 am
lilbrotot just wait like a week then do these steps DONT SEEM DESPRETE!!!!!then just dont go to her let her come to you if she come to you your home free dont play hard to get though it dont work not for me any how this how i got the hottest girl in school and im cofindent but i know i ant the hottest dude in school dont seem erogant btw
jeff
17 Sep 09 at 11:40 am
I don’t no if ur advice would have work but it must Likely would but the girl I liked is now dating my friend. But I got a girl now. She is HOTTTT!!!! We make the best couple!!! So I’m good for now!!!
Lilbrotot
19 Sep 09 at 11:11 am
1 confidence
2 originality
3 good sense of humor
4 ability to keep a conversation going
5 PATIENCE!!!! (most important)
this should be common sense but girls like someone who is confident not someone who hates themselves.. they don’t want the same old corny cliche lame lines and promises “oh baby you’re my everything you’re so damn beautiful.. ” BLA BLA BLA cmon don’t be lazy and think of new ways to approach a girl and new things to say. who doesn’t love a good sense of humor? well girls certainly do, tickle their funny bone and maybe they’ll tickle yours ;] Be able to keep a conversation going because if there are awkward silences it’s really hard for a girl to want to talk to you, if you need help doing that go throughout your day, your week, or your month making mental notes of all the funny, interesting, and noteworthy things that happen in that time period, when you see the girl and you feel an awkward silence coming tell her about it and start a conversation from there. lastly, patience is key, don’t become obsessed or get all crazy because she’s not your girlfriend right away, things take time you need to sell yourself in order for her to want to buy. if you’re a good salesman you’ll find a good client. of course always be true to yourself and to her because lies will get you no where, don’t hide yourself or lie because i don’t know a person in the world who loves being lied to, your goal is to get to know her and if she’s to accept she wants to get to know you too so don’t lie and don’t hide your real person.
bad with the ladies
22 Nov 09 at 12:59 pm
ok listen this one girl just became single and i whant to date her but i know she likes someone but she wont tell me…….i have no idea what to do and how to win her over…..PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZz help
Mike
4 Jan 10 at 7:57 pm
hi im 14 going on 15 &there is tis one beutiful girl at mai school i reeeaaaaly luv her wit all mai heart BUT i tink mai bud is going out wit her PLEAZE HALP ME thnx
sad man='(
3 Feb 10 at 3:06 am
also forgot need halp on asking here out nd tips thnx
sad man='(
3 Feb 10 at 3:13 am