How to Win a Girl in 7 Steps
December 6th, 2004
Seeing how it’s the Holiday season, this is always a time where it’s nice to have a date or to have that special someone with you. With this in mind, I figured that I would post about how you guys out there can go find yourself that special someone. While I’m directing this post towards all those single guys out there, all you ladies can also keep reading so you can find ways to drop subtle hints to that guy that you have your eye on. Now you may be thinking that I’m a guy so what would I know, so I got Mazie to help out too to give it that female touch.
1. First things first, make sure you have a single girl in mind or that you’d like to go out with. If you try this on a girl who’s already taken, I take no responsibility if her boyfriend comes to beat you up. Also, make sure that she atleast knows you. It may be fun to go and try and go out with a random girl, but that’s just hurting your chances of success. If you are able to date that random girl, then you really don’t need to be reading my advice anyways.
2. Like yourself! How’s a girl supposed to like you if you don’t even like yourself? For those that need some help liking themselves, just repeat this following phrase over and over again out loud. “I am an attractive human being, and people like me.” After enough repetition, you’ll begin to feel better about yourself and have more confidence in yourself too. This will go a long way in trying to get that girl.
3. Have somewhere to go. It’s very important that you have an event or a place planned out as to where you can take this special lady. While going to your friends place to play video games all night may seem like a blast to you, unless you have a girl who loves video games, this will most likely turn them off. Try to pick a place where you’ll have a good chance to be able to talk with them, but also having something to do so that you aren’t sitting there doing nothing cause you have nothing to say. A restaurant would be a good starting place to take her, just make sure that she likes the food!
4. Work on your approach. Using pickup lines such as “Oh baby, you must be tired, you’ve been running in my mind all day!” is generally a bad way to approach asking a girl out on a date. It’s a bad way to even start up a conversation as it would most likely kill any chances you have right there. So figure out what the best way to talk to them is. Is there a place or event where you know you’ll meet up with her? Do you talk to her semi-regularly where it wouldn’t be out of place to call? Try to keep it as natural as possible, so as the girl doesn’t begin to think that you’re stalking her. The best way would be to probably meet up with her at a place where you generally see her, and just have small talk until you can find the right opportunity. It’s best to get them in a conversation with you first so that they become friendlier with you and are more likely to accept an invitation.
5. Confidence is key! In order to give yourself the best shot, it’s better to be confident of yourself and of what you’re about to do. While it might be nerve wracking at first, you’ll most likely have a better chance of getting her to accept if you’re confident when you ask her. However, don’t become cocky or obnoxious as this will most likely definitely turn off the girl and get you rejected. Also, be prepared for any answer that you may receive. It’s possible that the girl may not want to go out on that date with you, so understand that you may just get that answer from her. If you do, kindly accept her answer and leave the option open to her in case she decides to change her mind in the future.
6. Go for it! It’s almost cliché to say, but just be yourself. If you really are trying to find that special someone, they’ll eventually figure out who you really are, so make it easy for them and for yourself and just be yourself. While being someone you’re not may get you that first date, you may not get a second one when they find out more about who you really are. If a girl can’t like you for who you are, then it’s not worth your effort to try and date her.
7. Be a gentleman. Whether she accepts your invitation or not, it’s still good to always be a gentleman. Doing the simple things such as opening doors, walking her back late at night, or other things is always going to be a plus for you. If other girls see you as being such a gentleman, you might be able to catch their interest if things don’t work out for the first girl. It doesn’t take much effort and will go a long way in getting her to remember you. The more she thinks about you, the better chance you’ll have of repeat dates.
Hopefully, with the guide that Mazie and I put together, you guys will have a good chance of getting that date or finding that special someone. Feel free to leave your own advice too. Plain and simple, just be yourself and things will work out from there. If all else fails, flowers always help. Hey, it worked for me! 
Some helpful posts:
How to Ask Someone Out
7 Steps to a Better Looking You!
7 Steps to Better Etiquette
The Value of a Good Smile!
Making Skillful First Impressions!
7 Gifts for a Girl <- NEW
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Comment by Mazie — 12/6/04 @ 9:16 pm
sum tseng din gai gum tsa?
why am i sad?? because your advice is common sense!!! yet.. here i stand with both my arms wrapped around nobody… maybe i’ll work on my ‘dee maaa babeee’..
Comment by bonzai — 12/6/04 @ 9:33 pm
hey bonzai how bout:
ney sic ghor “lunch” mei ah?
(have you had lunch yet?)
zherng uhm zherng ghan ha ghor se yut se ghan son chaun gwoon ah?
(would you like to try out this new restaurant with me?)
Comment by Mazie — 12/6/04 @ 9:46 pm
“seeeee FUT!”
works like a charm!
Comment by Mitchell — 12/6/04 @ 10:14 pm
lol this is really good, u wrote it?
is that how you and Mazie got together?
Comment by Jenn — 12/7/04 @ 7:58 am
haha yea, I wrote it with Mazie’s help. What I wrote was similar to how we got together.
Comment by Lawrence — 12/7/04 @ 8:16 am
you guys should open a dating consultant company…LOL
Comment by Anonymous — 12/7/04 @ 8:32 am
ooops…forgot to wirte my name
Comment by Crystal — 12/7/04 @ 8:32 am
sounds as smooth as a self-help book or a magazine article.
Comment by papillonsl — 12/7/04 @ 11:50 am
haha I should publish a book!
Comment by Lawrence — 12/7/04 @ 2:29 pm
i like the “be prepared.” that sounds like either boyscout-influence or 1 peter 3:15: “But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect. . . “
Comment by sophia — 12/14/04 @ 12:53 pm
Good advice but not a lot of people have the confidence to ask a girl out even when they understand that the girl mayby fancies them.
Comment by Mark Nicoll — 4/10/05 @ 10:17 am
just go for it what do you have to lose:lol:
Comment by troy — 5/4/05 @ 10:37 am
#5 is key.
It’s a complete turnoff when a guy with no or little confidence tries to get with me. If a guy talks about what a loser he is all the time, then I believe that they are, in fact, a loser!
Comment by Jandi — 6/1/05 @ 1:40 am
Even though I knew that already, reading it makes it all a lot clearer. I just hope it helps with getting a girl back.
Comment by Dan — 6/2/05 @ 7:03 pm
i like men smarter and more hardworking than me. financially stable and without a temper.
Comment by Anonymous — 7/4/05 @ 5:39 pm
You are such the ladies man.
Comment by sam — 7/31/05 @ 1:44 pm
you got all the information i needed thanks you rock
Comment by chi — 8/9/05 @ 12:10 am
Comment by alma — 8/10/05 @ 4:53 am
hi i need advise i might only be 15 but the i loved dunped me and i still love her ur advise work then but now this is a new challange P.s my hotmail account is reapers_guard@hotmail.com (plz help)
Comment by tom — 8/17/05 @ 3:47 am
ok nvm i sorted it out
Comment by tom — 8/18/05 @ 3:24 am
Comment by cool — 8/23/05 @ 2:36 am
thaks for the 7 tips but how can i trust myself ?
what is the best approched on asking a girl out on a date ? how would i know if the girl like me
Comment by lonely heart — 9/1/05 @ 3:43 am
this is a hang on for number 23 would you help me
there is this beautiful amazing sweet young woman that works in the same store as me but different department than i do she is sweet and all but she is just a hard person to get i am 21 and i have tried everthing that came in my mind please leave me a coment i am lonely heart so please answer this comment under all coments forum
Comment by lonely heart — 9/1/05 @ 3:50 am
:mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen: This helped me alot!
Comment by Anonymous — 9/2/05 @ 6:27 pm
hi
im 15
i was dumped by my ex. it really hurt. coz i really do love her. we had trouble comunicating and she has gym 6 nights a week. so i didnt no wat 2 do. i finally decided 2 sit down and try and tlk wit her. but b4 i got a chance she dumped me. i dnt no how 2 convince her 2 tlk 2 me. plz help!
gary
Comment by gary — 9/4/05 @ 11:36 am
ok cool
Comment by paschal — 9/9/05 @ 1:25 pm
im 16 and i tryed to get with a girl iliked and didnt know what to say so i kinda used the secret admirer aproach and it seemed it backfired so id really like some help on how to fix this problem
Comment by Anonymous — 9/23/05 @ 6:53 pm
:!::!::!::razz:yay nmum
Comment by Anonymous — 9/28/05 @ 1:36 am
ok I have a question—I know a girl, but I don’t know how to do small talk or aproach her (make friends) so that then I can ask her.
what shall I do?
Comment by nash — 10/2/05 @ 8:47 pm
Comment by CYq — 10/10/05 @ 10:38 pm
Hi, the advice is ok but the only thing is i’m 13 and i really can’t get any girls . they say i’m cute and nice, but when i ask them if they want to go wit me they say no cause they are my friend. now theirs this girl in my class and she’s already had a boyfriend in my class. so basically i want to go wit her badly she so fine but i think she plays hard to get. what will be my best approach?
Comment by Lance harris — 10/17/05 @ 7:43 pm
this is good stuff right her at first i asked a girl out and she sed i waz 2 imichur lol
(i now i spelled imichur rong hehehe :roll:)but this hellped me and now i got the girl of my dreams thank you:mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen:
Comment by sam — 10/18/05 @ 8:20 pm
I went out with this girl but she dumped me for some reason she doesnt want to tell me but we are sort of friends but she says she hates me still. I really love her alot and i need some help trying to get back together with herplease help me.
Dan
Comment by Dan — 10/22/05 @ 5:43 pm
i need advive from strangers so here it goes. im crazzy about this girl. now im a jr in highschool but i dont take dateing as a joke like most. anyways wev been hangin out lately and i thought we had a thing goin. i wasnt shure about how she felt untill halloween. i was stuck at my house and couldnt go with her and her brother trick or treating. i was stuck at home and she called on her cell and told me she was going to crush my pumpkin and came all the way over to my house and did. then we hung out and i drove her brother home and we hung out the until ten. we talked and talked and i was shure we were good. it was so oviuse. anyways she rejected me becsue of a boyfreind that dosnt live neer hear and personaly i dont think deserves her. either way very sorry to ramble but all i whant to know is if there are any
sugjestions on how i should win her over?
Comment by pirate drake — 11/7/05 @ 3:16 am
sorry for being so self sentered and typeing so much
Comment by pirate drake — 11/7/05 @ 3:19 am
i just think that people should wait because God has a plan for all of us and all of us will meet the right man/woman of or lives and then theres no point in havin a thousand or less,boys/girls just to find him/her,because theres only one guy/girl for each and one of us.
Comment by holly — 11/7/05 @ 11:00 pm
there’s this girl in my math class that i really like but i’m too shy to ask her out. i don’t know if she likes me or not and i don’t know if she’ll go out with me. what should i do to get myself to ask her or to see if she likes me?
Comment by ryce — 11/8/05 @ 8:48 pm
holly- have you ever considered: what if god hates you, what if he hates all of us? I’ve thought about it, and its not the worst thing that could happen.
Comment by carlisle — 11/9/05 @ 5:54 am
number 7 is the key point to it all!!
Comment by hilary — 11/9/05 @ 8:06 pm
I can certainly agree with alomost all the things you say-ALMOST!, one thing bro, restaurants are such common dating scenes it alomost doesnt rock, and your dates usuallu=y ends up like Jobs interviews, asking about family, jobs and stuff-keep the date hot-and keep it lively-go to places that will generate talk, i mean exciting subjects-dont do the interview thing and pay the bill-create the attraction, but remember attraction is illogical, and never happens by logical means-but good advice anyway-Just dont do the interview thing when you for the restaurant
Comment by CJ — 11/11/05 @ 4:02 pm
hey i need some help. i just met this girl i like but i dont think she likes me. how can i get her to talk to me more and get to eventually like me
Comment by anonymous — 11/13/05 @ 1:19 am
hey i was looking at this site, i found it of google, very very good advice thanks lawerence
Comment by mark from ireland — 11/13/05 @ 3:50 pm
is it wrong to feel like someone dropped an atomic bomb on me???
Comment by Sman — 11/16/05 @ 6:52 pm
Comment by joe — 11/16/05 @ 9:42 pm
thanks a lot i’m only in the sixth grade and i bet this will help me a lot to the girl i want.:!::cool:
Comment by Troy — 11/18/05 @ 11:09 pm
I have girl who are love she like me too but I ask her to go out she say no and I ask her why she say I should had ask her before now. what should I do? coz I love her. help pls
Comment by victor — 11/19/05 @ 12:43 pm
Comment by junior — 11/21/05 @ 9:36 am
Ok,Troy,I’m in 6 grade 2.If u think a girl likes u,that u like,ask her if she’ll be your girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!:razz:
Comment by Ally — 11/23/05 @ 3:10 pm
:oops:u hv tried ur best here but plz also write something which really works i mean how to get a girl whom u dont talk but just see her at some places.what pickup lines we can use for that.if u can do that……..
Comment by max — 11/23/05 @ 4:18 pm
Ok max,try to make eye contact wth her alot.Ten about 1/2 weeks later,introduce urself 2 her,when u see her give her a friendly wave.About 37 a half weeks into knowing her,give her your number& if she calls u then u know she likes u.After about a month of knowing her her,start 2 ask her if yall r more than friends.If she starts 2smile 0rgets a flirty voice ask her 2 be ur girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I hope u get what u want max!:grin:Tell me how everything works out!
Comment by Ally — 11/23/05 @ 9:04 pm
i hope this will help me to get the girl that ive loved for ever i have a problem with the confidence i never really could approach a girl
Comment by alex sylvestri — 11/24/05 @ 9:14 pm
im 15 and ive found a perfect girl and she flirts with me all the time and when i ask her out she bumps me off. What do i do?
Comment by Ty — 11/25/05 @ 12:37 am
Ok Ty,what do u mean she bumps u off?Do u mean she refuses 2 go on a date with u?& how dose she flirt with u & where?Answer my questions & I’ll tell u what 2 do.
Comment by Ally — 11/25/05 @ 8:03 pm
thank you man it really helped
Comment by Alex — 11/27/05 @ 7:31 pm
I already got the 7 steps down, but like someone said “they want the guy financialy stable” I am I have more money than I ever want. But so many ladies are such gold diggers now a days and I been used for just money.. It’s sad.. Is there a way to approach a girl with statement “Are you financialy stable as well?” or “Can you live by yourself without me” basically independent.. sO many girls im attractive too aren’t. Should I lower my standards or keep waiting? I don’t want a gold digger.. I want one who can support her own, and not use me for money and love me for me..
Comment by TA — 11/28/05 @ 5:59 am
thanx bra im gonna give it a shot:cool::cool:
Comment by tod — 11/28/05 @ 2:46 pm
aight, i’ve got a problem: My best friend and I and this girl all work together. I kinda have a thing for her, but now she is dating my best friend…she flirts with me constantly, but I dont want to hurt my friend, I think that she is the one for me…but I dont know what to do.plz help
Comment by Michael — 12/1/05 @ 1:09 am
i am 13 and using your tips.i am friends with this girl but i want to be more than friends. thanks a bundle
Comment by anonymous — 12/2/05 @ 8:26 pm
:neutral::twisted::cool::cry::cry::cry::cry::sad::neutral::neutral::shock::smile:
Comment by anonymous — 12/2/05 @ 8:28 pm
I am also 13 and used your tips. I tried your tips on this girl i’ve liked for 2 years, and it worked perfectly. We’ve been going out for about 2 months and all is well. Thanx again guys
:) 
Comment by Josh Wright — 12/8/05 @ 2:30 am
Comment by jorge — 12/11/05 @ 8:34 pm
The 7 tips are good, but I like this girl and before I found this site, I asked 2 girls for advice. They just told her and it is winter break. I don’t know what her reation is. I also managed to give her a ring before that happened. I really need advice.
Comment by Brian — 12/17/05 @ 11:22 am
:mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen: U guys are wickedly awesome!!! Thanks again!
Comment by Jamzey — 1/5/06 @ 10:11 pm
ok guys this is a girl and i know what to do to get you hooked up this is what you do:
1. ask a friend to tell the gril if she likes you and ask her if she wants to go out with you
2. but let the girl know you more.
(because i give you guys this info dose not you need to hit on me not single got a man in my life ready!)
how i know this because hes friends with my best friend Savannah so this is how in love im in with.
GRILS WANT NICE GUYS!
Comment by Katie Hanks — 1/12/06 @ 10:24 pm
wat works good for me iz act like u r already goin out wit that girl and then she will begin 2 know u as she wood if we were goin out and then askin her on a date iz a breeze it works try it!
Comment by Paul R. — 1/15/06 @ 1:28 am
:razz:chears for the advice im shure itl help me win her over:smile:
Comment by ash — 1/17/06 @ 6:40 pm
im a 13 yr ol boy and used yer advice. bin goin out with her fer 3 months. thanks
Comment by tin — 1/18/06 @ 10:12 pm
i just dumb my girl friend last night and i been wit her for 8 mounths and every time she hangs out witht this one girl she changes and i need her back shes all i want and i am deeply in love
Comment by jim — 1/28/06 @ 11:53 am
:lol::lol::lol::lol::!::!::!:i just got the hottest girl:mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen:
Comment by Anonymous — 1/30/06 @ 9:38 pm
she left me when i told her i love u (she left me because of her family said no)
Comment by yamen — 1/30/06 @ 10:02 pm
:evil:it made it seme so easy
Comment by jim — 2/1/06 @ 1:53 am
dude i wanted to ask a girl from my youth group out, but i choked. i bought a ring for a gift to hopefully get her to like me more, but i got nervous and i never asked her out. she never even saw the ring. she and my ex are fighting cause i danced with her at the school dance and my ex got jealous. now i dont know if she wants to be with me:sad:
Comment by brad — 2/2/06 @ 2:06 am
I have this girl and now in teartiary level we used to love each other when we are at secondary level.but because i was too shy i didnt approach here and now we are in different university my love to her is much growing and i dont know what to do.
Comment by Takalani — 2/5/06 @ 7:10 am
do you have any advice for someone who likes a co worker and is already very close to her and dear to her but wants her to like him more than just a good friend, We flurt and talk alot but it does not go further than that i throw signs and also try to ignore her what should i do
Comment by ken — 2/5/06 @ 3:43 pm
ok all yall problems i can help u with,
number 1, if u see a girl u like the first time u see her alone or twice its best to talk to her before someone eles gets to her, i know its hard but when u shake the bugs off, it will work trust me,
number 2, let me see how to start off a conversation wow thats real hard lol jk all u do is speak like any other person would speak like ya freinds or somthing like how u doing (my favorite one) (hey sweetheart u new around here cause i have not seen u before) lol it always works, u can see her like many of times that starts a convo lol simple
number 3, the best place to take a girl is, her option or a park or something uno a little chat, make sure u both is on the right page,
number 4, this is the most important thing to do when u like a girl or trying to get her, GET HER ON THE PHONE all girls love talking on the phone n thats when they open there selfs up trust me it always happen,
number 5, how do u no if a girl likes u ?, lol wow if she gives u constant looks, or she smiles when seeing u, but i cant really judge that, because some girls will tell there other freinds or play like she dont even like u u no why? because she is waiting on u to come to her lol thats why,
number 6, last but not least, to keep a good freind as a girl n not ya girl freind, now its different types of girls out there and it all depends how they aprroach to u she can just want a one night stand or be your man or even be a good freind, n i can tell how to keep a good freind as a girl, 1 dont try to kiss her or any sexual thing stay cool with it a freindy hug is fine, 2 dont talk nasty to her or n anyother way just talk like u talk to the dudes uno keep it cool,
n the best place to meet a girl is at parties wow sweet heart where did u get them dance moves from can u teach me 
Comment by jeremy donaldson — 2/23/06 @ 2:23 pm
Ok im 14 going on 15 and i really need to know somthing now as #76 said this girl i like does give me
constant looks and somtimes smiles BUT (there’s always a but isn’t there)she and her friends played a trick on me a week ago and now i’m almost certain she doesn’t like me atall.Is that hiding her feelings or does she genuinely dislike me ?:?:
Comment by Jake — 2/27/06 @ 5:06 am
Flowers dont help much if the girl dont like the guy. I think giving out presents too often will backfired instead.
Have to restrict
Comment by Izha — 3/1/06 @ 3:18 pm
Thanks. I think I’ll have to give it a try
Comment by batty — 3/3/06 @ 11:56 am
:shock::roll::lol::eek::wink:
Comment by Anonymous — 3/3/06 @ 11:30 pm
i like this stuff it’s cool.send more tips
Comment by ahmed — 3/4/06 @ 12:18 pm
Hi,
There’s this girl i love so much.We are very close,and we dicuss other things apart from lov.
I always see her with a guy,is it wise to ask her who the guy is.I never tell here anything about friendship or love.
Hope you’ll write to my e mail.
Comment by Knnet — 3/6/06 @ 11:27 am
I would agree with all of these especially being a gentleman. girls that are mature enough to kno what love is would rather have a gentleman, because that shows her that you respect her care for her and most of all you love her. i have found in my dating life that girls enjoy having a guy that is like that.and i think the second most important is having Confidence. a girl likes a guy that is “not afraid” to talk to her bout anything and that includes asking her out on a date, and getting your friend to ask for you well no affence but grow some balls.
please give your input. thanx
Comment by stefan benson — 3/14/06 @ 2:09 am
amen brother:!:finally someone who gets it. i kno i submited a problem b4, but i just asked the girl i liked. and just fell into place.:mrgreen:but ne ways this guy above me is right. grow some balls guys. ask a girl to the movies. to dinner. or for those with da mucho grande wavos, a walk. you’ll be suprised about what you could get:grin::cool::wink:
Comment by brad — 3/14/06 @ 10:50 pm
I can tell you put your heart and soul into this. Roses works magic. Very very very nice work!
Comment by Jeff — 3/20/06 @ 12:12 am
i hope these reelywork im going to ask a girl out
she seems 2 like me but i dnt no how 2 tell:?:
Comment by Austin — 3/26/06 @ 7:04 am
above steps work out when executed in a proper manner.Rather,try to be yourself;a day will come:grin:
Comment by Aksh — 3/31/06 @ 12:59 pm
hey i like this girl right see im 14 and i need to get her i liked her since 5th grade and now my friend likes her, and he keeps calling me names and making fun of me and now he is trying to say that he has a better chance then me! i did’nt make fun at him at all. Please help i have my email address on there please send me mail.
Comment by Maxwell smith — 4/4/06 @ 10:36 pm
also forgot people actually thinks that he has a better chance then me to.:neutral:
Comment by Maxwell smith — 4/4/06 @ 10:38 pm
ok i asked about a problem b4 but i just read #84 and i have decided to go right ahead and ask her (scary)
im thinking movies. anyways these r some great tips.
even tho no1 could help me w/ my question thx anyways.:smile:
Comment by Jake — 4/6/06 @ 6:25 am
I’m 14 years old and tried to ask this girl out who I thought liked me. I didn’t think that she would say no, I mean I wanted her to be my first girlfriend. I guess that thinking that was stupid. And since I asked her out we haven’t talked for at least a month and I can’t stop thinking about her and have no clue what to do and I don’t have enough confidence to even talk to her, even though all of my friends think that I should. So, I think that your advice is good, but I don’t think that I am ready to use it yet.
Comment by Ed — 4/6/06 @ 5:39 pm
these really work they helped me hook up with agirl and all it takes is cofedence and for u to be ur self
Comment by Austin — 4/7/06 @ 11:10 pm
mah friends havin problems nd told meh about dis site..lol..its pretty helpful..i really like #6…mah friend neva got it until he read it….xP
Comment by Diz Chink — 4/16/06 @ 10:31 am
hi loudu
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Comment by Anonymous — 4/16/06 @ 3:39 pm
thanks guys now i have a date to the dance you guys rock:!:
Comment by sharif maky — 4/18/06 @ 9:04 am
hey im 14 and theres a girl thats 14 that i’ve known for like 7 years so far and were pretty close friends but not going out……yet….i did ask her out once over AIM like 4 days ago and she said that she liked me but also likes another guy who you see one of my best friends and heused to go out with her and there friends too but she likes both of us i think. now, i dont no yet if he likes her, i think that he sort of does. after i asked her out and she told me that she said that she would think about it and weve talked a good amount since then and are stil friends but i dont know what to do first of all she’s the first girl that i’ve ever worked up the courage to ask out. i usaullly go over to her house about every day or every other day and we usually do something with just the 2 of us and we flirt and everything so im pretty sure that she likes me and i am almost certain that she knows that i like her but i just dont know what to do now i just need some suggestions from someone that has already done stuff like this (ask a girl out) to help me out.
thanks a million if this works i owe you my life,
Scott
Comment by Scott — 4/18/06 @ 10:41 pm
im 13 and i havent asked the girl i liked out yet but ill get back to you under eloop as the name and tell you how it went but to my advantige she hate regection and my friends think she likes me remember the name eloop :cool::mrgreen::cool:
Comment by anonymous — 4/19/06 @ 1:13 am
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Comment by Matt — 4/19/06 @ 9:41 pm
:cool:this was so easy
Comment by blank — 4/21/06 @ 10:11 pm
:evil::mrgreen::shock::razz::roll::cry::lol::eek::mad::cool::smile::neutral::mrgreen:
Comment by Anonymous — 4/23/06 @ 12:52 am
Hey, iv been out with like 7 or 8 girls, and i just recently dated a girl called Freya, wer both 15 in case ur wondering, and i was her 1st boyfriend. well anyway she dumped me about a week ago and i cant stop thinking about her, she said she didnt feel the same way as she did before. do u think their is any chance that we will ever get back together? thanks, try and reply to this, and to all the other kids who need help for asking a girl out, personaly, just to help Scott out at number 97, seeing as u guys talk alot and see each other often id say u have a prety good chance, just be comfortable with her. this all sounds corny but seriously, the time will come. i cant say much to u Scott because i dont really kno ur personality or hers, but dont ask her out until ur really sure, take ur time, if u guys r good friends shell appreciate it.
aaron
Comment by Aaron — 4/24/06 @ 7:53 pm
Mayb ill try ur advice:smile: but r u really sure it’ll work
Comment by uknown — 4/25/06 @ 7:48 am
:sad:hay dude, for the longest time i like this one girl, but there was always was this other guy tring to take her:evil:. but i used your steps and boy did it work.:grin:thanks dude:!:
Comment by frank — 4/28/06 @ 11:11 pm
hi
Comment by lahoucine — 4/30/06 @ 1:19 am
hi
Comment by lahoucine — 4/30/06 @ 1:19 am
hi
Comment by lahoucine — 4/30/06 @ 1:20 am
Ok i really need some dating help….I asked this girl out i liked and she didnt say yes or no instead she put her arm around me and hugged me and i hugged her back. The very next day she told me she liked one of my friends and used that i just want to be friends thing with me. Im 13 and this is the 1st girl i actually wanted to go with and i really want to know how i could win her over if anyone could help me email me at zxredeyesxz@aol.com. I really need help and any help that can be givin is alright with me.
Comment by jim — 5/3/06 @ 10:11 pm
ok i no this is weird, but i want to find out how to break up with my gf, in fact i need to get her to break up with me. Weve ben goin out for 11 months, but sometimes she realy aggrivates me and will try and argue over the dumbest thing. When i try to insinuate that i want to break up she just changes the topic, i’m a really nice guy and dont want to make her cry, so thats why i want to get her to break up with me instead of me breakin up with her.
Also thers this other girl that likes me that i used to like, and i really think she is great and i cudnt ever see me hurting her, i want to get her b4 its too late
(im 14 rs old) if it matters
Comment by help — 5/16/06 @ 4:00 pm
I like the word “LIKE YOURSELF!” it seems that liking yourself could influence the girl to like you as well.
it may even a key for you to be loved by her yet it still need a limitation coz if it would be to much she may recognize you as boastful person.
Comment by Ron — 5/17/06 @ 12:43 pm
wonder if u wld offer advice on hw 2 get back a gurl after they broke up wit u… i nid tat now:sad::cry::cry:
Comment by kai — 6/11/06 @ 1:25 am
please help me! i am 16 years old and there is this girl that i rely rely like! i have tred evrything! we text each other all the time and i got the impression that she likes me, we went out the other day and we started holding hands, but then wen i sed to her a few days later will u c me, she sed no. i dont know what to do, and if i dont get this girl then… i dunno… but i just need some extra tips on how to win her over.
Thanku
Comment by annoymous — 6/12/06 @ 1:22 pm
:roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::lol::lol::!:
Comment by Anonymous — 6/13/06 @ 4:24 pm
I had a crush on the girl next door and she flirted briefly for about 2 or 3 months.
then maybe becos it was getting obvious and also since she said she already had a BF we had a fight and showdown.
she hurt me a lot,put me down….
everytime we cross ways a frown is what she shoed.
till,suddenly after 1year,she stops halfway through gate and turns and smiles sweetly starting to ask maybe how iam doing?
i couldnt overcome my anger and frowned back real bad-bnackoff.
still,iam so touched that she forgot the past and and wanted to wish or maybe be friends ,just friends again?
i regret i reacted at this moment i knew might come about someday.
i actually rehearsed to say when it happens that iam sorry that i behaved like a schoolboy without bothering if she is into me the samewy.
but its also true that she knew my interest right from, the first day and lead me on to deliberately put me down.which is why iam angry.
folks…strange is hgow ouir heart works.
menawhile i have a new GF who adores me but this relationship wont work becos i really dont feel that way about her.its this girl next door who is bitchy who drives me crazy…with mixed signals and mind games.
give me a debrief would ya?
narayan:roll:
Comment by dr narayan — 6/17/06 @ 1:38 am
Hi,
My problem is as same as that of many other’s.
I met a girl, she comes to the same classes where i go.
one day in an afternoon batch she was the first to come to the class and fortunately me the second.
she observed me and started talking to me about myself and my college etc..
She became very friendly to me.
I wanted this thing to continue even later
but due to other students in the classes i cannot proceed further.
I m scared to talk to her.
frm past 3 days i m preparing my self to communicate with her, but all in vain.
few days before she used to smile at me , but her smile reduced with time.
i dont want to loose her undr any circumstances.
she is an indian reg:-Hindu and some what modern some what traditional in style.
kindly plz help me with my situation.
my e-mail is gaurav104_raj@yahoo.co.in
as soon s possible.
Comment by gaurav — 6/26/06 @ 11:09 am
Comment by Izzy — 6/30/06 @ 9:59 am
hi ive known this firl for about ……. 1 year now we are going to different high schools you see i never told her i liked her but we flirt and stuff in school when we were in grade 8 now she and i r going to different high schooil is ther a way i can get her back even tho i mite not ever see her aagain? and does tha find her number meet her and talk personally thing work? i don know i have her msn which is 1 way tot alk o she is the hard type to get
also my emoitions are getitng caught up adn i find myself liking my moms friend whi is 30 
i don know what to do….
Comment by Nervous Ned — 6/30/06 @ 7:20 pm
hi:smile:
Comment by dany — 7/10/06 @ 3:56 am
k i’ll it a try:wink:
Comment by Tom — 7/18/06 @ 2:20 pm
thanks for you
very much
your buddy , Murad
Comment by Murad — 7/19/06 @ 9:59 am
:smile:HI ALL. I met this girl whose 14. She does like me cause I asked her but she thinks that we’d better stay friends. She also flirts with me and she sends me msg’s all the time. I’m in love with her can u pls help me how to convince her start goin out with me ??? BTW she have many dates with different guys that cannot be trusted. I need her !! PLS !!!
Comment by Justin — 7/22/06 @ 12:55 pm
Yo!i havent’ tried this,but i hope it surely will work great,cos it kina sounds cool to me/:cool:
Comment by Sly — 7/28/06 @ 9:13 pm
hi,there is this girl in my church that i really like.But the problem is.i’m 20 and she is 16.I don’t know how to approach her,but ireally nedd to have her.Also,my dad is a leader in the church.
See,i play the piano so it kina makes her like me some way,but i don’t know how to … you kno.
Please help me out.
Comment by Sly — 7/28/06 @ 9:24 pm
:grin:Hey guys this article really helped me with my confidence and with getting me to really find myself. You see im the funny kid, at least thats what my friends say. Its a good thing because girls say that they like guys with a sense of humour. But also i get made fun of alot in front of the girl that i wanna ask out, im kinda chubby. So how can i be confident when this girl sees me being made fun of everyday and shows pitty for me, PLEASE HELP!!!!!
Comment by Brian — 8/3/06 @ 12:50 pm
hi, there is this girl who is in my classes for all my subjects i really like her and she does talk to me. i have asked her out once and she said she didnt really want us to go out. can i still have this girl.
please help me out
Comment by jay — 8/4/06 @ 11:03 am
Hey. well theres this girl i love so much.. we were going out for about 4 months but she broke up with me because she didnt feel the same way.. a month and a half later i still love her with all my heart, what can i do to get her back.. please email me! thanks.xxx.:cry:
Comment by Chris — 8/15/06 @ 2:13 am
Comment by Emachine — 8/20/06 @ 12:40 am
hey this advice is very helpful also i had a ? to anybody who can help me i have a sit is there always hopw with a girl even though u think its over is it reall i need to know im in kind of in a quite dilema
Comment by paisano — 9/8/06 @ 4:58 pm
i aksed her out followed all of the steps carefully.
but she broke my heart because another guy had ruined her. it would work if the guy wasnt a frend who betrayed my trust.:sad:
Comment by brandon — 10/6/06 @ 7:59 am
Comment by gino — 10/10/06 @ 12:42 pm
hi i am a 10 yr old and my gf said she like sum other guy and she got all upset and now she won’t talk to me cuz he dumped her twice and she keeps asking him out but he say’s no and it is hurting her feelings i try to stick up for her but she just say’s “go awy” or “f*** off” and i cried my eyes out tonight.I really want her back i have tried everything and it just won’t work i have tried a box of choclates,sweet talk,gifts,notes and i have even tried kill the guy who stole her from me. do you have any information?
it would be alot of help :mrgreen::mrgreen:
Comment by DJ — 10/19/06 @ 9:34 pm
HI, I am 11 years old, I am a fat, lo-life idiot, and i have liked a girl for 2 years, I NEVER said i word to her in person, she found out i like her the wrong way, i sent her idoit letterd durring the summer, and i told her i love her on IM
HELP!!!!
Comment by Alex — 11/8/06 @ 8:23 pm
He ditched us man… no use in posting…
Comment by Alex — 11/8/06 @ 8:26 pm
ok this did not really tell me that much on wat to get her to win her over another guy
Comment by chris boehme — 11/15/06 @ 4:43 pm
:cry::cry::cry:rejection can be terribly hard on you:cry::cry:
just be a man and don’t do something stupid
Comment by U don't need 2 know — 11/16/06 @ 3:23 pm
I like this girl a lot…i do not know if she feels the same way as i did…but i can see in her looks that she also feels something special for me…problem is i am not yet legally separated and she has a boyfriend…it could be match not made in heaven:sad: i really like her a lot what will i do?
Comment by Neo — 11/18/06 @ 8:22 am
im a 13 yeas old chinese boy i live in england and i really like this girl from my school but she wont go out with me when she said no i was really sad. im learning to play the acoustic guitar plainly just to rase her interests in me im getting quite good at it. please can anyone help me
Comment by Lui — 11/20/06 @ 4:00 pm
the question i have is this:
where does one take a female when they have no money to spend?
parks are kinda dull around here and walking around the mall is getting kinda old…. any ideas?
Comment by Frankie — 11/21/06 @ 11:43 pm
I AM 17yrs old and i am from kerala,india, i love a girl sincerly from 4yrs she is very beautiful and they are many who tries be her boyfriend.but she refuses every one.most had a love at first sight ,but for me she is like my lifeline in my dreams thoughts everywhere everytime she is the only is ,i had some hope last yr as she showed some +ve signs now we are in different schools ,my sole aim in my life is to be a software engineer,and marry her but now whenever i opens my book only her face comes to me and i am gravely searching in internet these days to find anyway to win her heart as she is junior to me and since she knows i love her it is not at all able to do the sugestions given like “15 ways of winning a girls heart”etc so plz help me with a solution as now in every aspect of line i am demolished of grief of not getting her sorry i had forgotten to tick the noti5 e …..via e-mail checkbox
Comment by SACHIN — 11/30/06 @ 12:10 pm
ahh i’m a freshmen and theres this girl in the same P.E period as me, and like i dunno, but i always find myself caught up looking at her! so i’ve decided i like her, but i dont know her name… lol.
i’ve been “liking her for like 2 an a half months now!
but still dont know her name…
Comment by ??? — 12/1/06 @ 3:20 pm
oh oh yeah , and somtimes i catch her looking at me too!
but….i’m pretty sure she too doesnt know my name?
Comment by ??? — 12/1/06 @ 3:22 pm
Okay, I totally disagree with #3! I love video games and going out to eat is to much of a bother for people becayse I’m picky! So I don’t agree with #3, but whatever, most girls don’t like video games I guess.
Comment by Sess — 12/6/06 @ 4:03 pm
my email add: sachin_divakar@yahoo.com plz help me !
Comment by sachin — 12/7/06 @ 5:58 am
i dont know if you really reply to these things but ive read you tips and stuff because i need help really badly. im crazy about my ex who cheated on me and dumped me, yet i still love her so much and were still good mates, but shes got a new boyfriend who has always been -ahem- unkind to everyone. and i think he doesent deserve her cuz he doesnt treat her right and in my eyes i treated her as best as i could, why wouldnt i, i loved her. and now her boyfriend is getting in the way of our friendship and i cant even call her or text her unless hes not with her?!! whats the deal. please help and e-mail me back, cheers guys.
Comment by Jord — 12/30/06 @ 9:26 am
hmm intresting, i got a fun question for ya lowrance. I ended up using these 7 steps. Only problem is the girl sayd no but seems to get jellous when i talk to other girls. and the gentelman thng atracted the girls best friend who also lives with her. kinda trying to get some advice. id like to go out with her friend but i dont want to maake the first girl angry with her friend. u know any smooth way to let her just accept it?
Comment by mathew — 1/7/07 @ 3:01 am
ya thanks i got a gf:grin:!!!
Comment by Anonymous — 1/11/07 @ 7:11 pm
girls like 2 be asked questions about them selfs try it and ur go along way, being a genlemen is also very gd and helps a lot , dont tell them straight away u like them like i did lol some girls like playing hard 2 get find out what they like maybe suprise them with some gifts at where they work.
Comment by scotty lampard — 1/15/07 @ 10:52 am
thnkyO ill try thm
Comment by kev-bo — 1/17/07 @ 9:11 pm
well this is preti cool. im 15 n i hav a story, ok so i liked this girl who’s my friend a lot n so one day about a week or two ago i wuz walkin over to her house from the bus n it wuz me her n her best friend n as i wuz leaving her house i asked out her best friend(who already had a boyfriend) so obviously i wuz rejected by the girl i didnt like cuz she had a boyfriend n i kinda screwed up my chances with the girl that i DO like….o yeah n the best friend of the girl i like said she likes me a few days after n i think she broke up with her boyfriend…soooo yeah duznt reli make sense but i thot it wuz a funny story
Comment by travis — 1/24/07 @ 7:54 pm
i also wanna comment for anyone else who has commented about asking a girl out on AIM…im sure the girl sees a lot mor confidence in u if u ask her out in person, the AIM thing is like a lack of confidence in my opinion
Comment by travis — 1/24/07 @ 8:18 pm
Man thias atuff works i followed every step now I have the girl of my dreams man, Dreams do come true
Comment by Ryan — 1/30/07 @ 9:18 pm
im fithteen years of age and i have just split up with my girlfriend i love her so much and cant live without her, she says she doesnt know what to feel for me anymore but i cant accept that help me please
Comment by tom — 1/31/07 @ 12:12 pm
Man this stuff really works.
Comment by dc — 2/1/07 @ 5:37 pm
I would like to say I love you to a girl ….
but there r only walls around me
all girls r walls
Comment by suhaib — 2/14/07 @ 4:49 pm
but anyway someday I will Break one wall ……
Comment by suhaib — 2/14/07 @ 4:55 pm
my best mate is goin out wid the girl im in luv wid. wot the hell am i supposd to do???
Comment by jack — 2/20/07 @ 3:31 pm
hey im not even joking i realy need help wid this. i lost her nd now my best mate has her. i rlly need help
Comment by jack — 2/20/07 @ 3:36 pm
its avery good thing if you love but your suggests dont play with every girl
Comment by Anonymous — 2/28/07 @ 12:50 pm
Please read i need help!
What if you know a girl likes you at one point. Then you hang out with her and some friends and end up two days later telling each other how much you like each other and you find out she has liked you for a really long time. And its great for about 2 weeks, and we end up kissing 2 or 3 times and we are basically going out. But then i confirm it so I ask her on a thurs. and she says yes. THen on sun. she tells me she wasnt ready for a relationship but still likes me. And i was really sad about it and i let her know that. WE are trying to start over. So now its been about 2 weeks after that sun. And it is very hard for me right now because i love her more than anything and i just want to be with her. So a recap- 1. a girl asks to hang out on a sat., we fall for each other. 2.we constantly talk online thru the next week and hang out a few times. 3.We have a few small kisses. 4. by the second thurs. i ask her out officially. 5. Then by sun. she tells me shes not ready for a relationship”commitment”. 6. I feel the worst i have ever felt because of this and we are trying to restart. It is more than your average high school crush i know it is. I need advice. What should i do?
You can email me at billard1991@aol.com
I really hope no one i know sees this
Comment by Pete — 3/7/07 @ 10:14 am
ok i know this girl and i realy like her but were friends and i want to ask her out but i think that if i ask her out and she says no then it will ruin the friendship wat shud i do?
Comment by nate — 3/9/07 @ 4:58 pm
Comment by Anonymous — 3/19/07 @ 9:18 pm
nice
Comment by Anonymous — 3/21/07 @ 6:27 am
Ok, I’ve liked this girl for about 5 months. Currently she has a boyfriend and this is just tearing me apart. We have been friends for a while, and every day she says “Ilove you.” This is what throws me off. I dont know how to convince her that I love her, and would do anything for her. By the way her boyfriend lives in another goddamn state. can someone please help me.
Comment by Steve — 3/28/07 @ 2:19 pm
i like this girl have liked for for ages, i meet her on bebo(like myspace) we talked on that for a few weeks then i got her number and we text alot to each other but the thing is she texts heaps of people and i have only meet her twice but have been talking on the phone and from msn for 4 months i went to the movies wit hher not long ago, but i dont no if she likes me or not can anyone help?
Comment by anon — 4/16/07 @ 4:51 am
Comment by scott — 4/19/07 @ 8:01 pm
i am 12 and i like this girl
and she is in 7th grade and i am in 6th. 
i asked her if she wanted to go to the movies and she said sure…..then she called back and said na but maby next weekend. she is so funny and she is the love of my life but she is flirtty with EVERYONE 
plz how will i no if she likes me or not
Comment by cool kid — 4/20/07 @ 10:36 pm
by the way she says “I LOVE U” to me only all the time
Comment by cool kid — 4/20/07 @ 10:38 pm
Comment by real style picup's — 4/21/07 @ 2:56 pm
Yea um i know this is for guys getting girls, but im a girl trying to choose between 3 guys! HELP!!!!!
I have no clue what to do! 2 I asked out and 1 made a rude comment when i told hime i like him. (both i asked out said no 
) i feel a connection between 1 guy and i 
. But when hes around his friends hes a big fat-face jerk 
. another guy is my friend and he wants it to stay that way 
. the third guy is, in my sisters opinion, ugly 
. i think hes cute!!! 
What is a girl to do for a man’s heart?? 
status: 6th grade, if that helps
Comment by World Dominator and 11-year-old Author — 4/27/07 @ 8:15 pm
hey nice step by step thing…. well me and my gf just broke up today and i still have feelings for her… i really believe she is the one… do you have any advice to get her back? plz help
Comment by daryn — 5/10/07 @ 8:43 pm
Comment by I ♥ h0T cHiX — 5/11/07 @ 2:36 am
Comment by adam — 5/17/07 @ 11:16 pm
yeh it was ok herd all of it before sorry i no better
Comment by adam — 5/17/07 @ 11:18 pm
i have been reserhing for guys for like 3 years to help them get the rite on
Comment by adam — 5/17/07 @ 11:19 pm
yeh i need help
Comment by jonzey — 5/17/07 @ 11:21 pm
to the one who loves hot chix:: i advise you to talk to her before it’s too late, just try it, although you think she doesn’t want to talk to you, ask her what’s going on, because if you don’t do it now,you’ll lose your chance
good luck 
Comment by Mireia — 5/18/07 @ 8:16 am
Comment by I ♥ h0T cHiX — 5/18/07 @ 11:45 pm
i will try it
Comment by Anonymous — 5/25/07 @ 10:47 am
Comment by Mireia — 5/25/07 @ 1:45 pm
if i can control my confidence everything will be so much easier, no?
Comment by Tiby — 5/26/07 @ 10:21 pm
Comment by Anonymous — 6/2/07 @ 3:29 am
Hey i wondered if you could maybe help me out with my girl issues. I have fallen for this girl who likes me to however we are constantly having arguements and its making us both so upset. Althought the odd times when me and her are together its amazing. The real problem with me i guess is that i get jealous with her guy mates and she is a flirty girl although she doesnt mean anything by it. I wondered if maybe the arguements are a sign of not to go out with her? But then my mind thinks back to those amazing times. I dont see her enough and she said she cant see me more than she does because she doesnt trust guys very much. Any help would be gr8 just email me … Stevey192@btinternet.com thankyou
Comment by Steven Pleasants — 6/4/07 @ 6:14 pm
Sorry to post again but i feel after re-reading some peoples problems i may be able to help some of you, ( even though i have a problem myself ).
I totaly agree that being yourself is the best way and if you are sitting here on this forum then im guessing you are not sure who you are? Because my experiance tells me that after loving and longing for a girl for so so long i can see myself changing for her which is right or wrong? A girl is more likely to fall for you if you act the same all the way through your relationship because that offers them security that you are not going to leave them or that you are not acting fake.
How do you tell that girl ‘ I Love You ‘
If you have a relationship where you both like each other the best thing you can do is go to the park at night ( trust me ). Parks are a great place to go because you can act playfull and/or just sit and talk to her. Plus at night you can be more affectionate; and i dont mean in a sexual way i mean you can listen more and there is nothing much you can see which can distract you both. Now you may have told her on msn , AIM or what ever that you love her but that is a very lame and stupid way of doing it, the best wasy is to tell her face to face. I understand its not that easy sometimes but when your with her take her hand and tell her how YOU feel. Open up to her and let her feel like she has connected with a side of you that maybe no1 else has, tell her your secrets and your worries. Take her hand and express yourself and btw if you are thinking i could never do that just look into her eyes and say it because her eyes are your home, you long for those eyes to look at you because when they do you fall in love. Tell her you love her and dont smile or joke around tell her stright faced and if she begins to smile do not laugh. She may think you are joking but if you are serious you wiill not laugh. After telling her all your thoughts give her time to think dont rush her to respond she may be shocked or happy that you told her. Just give her time and eventualy she will also open up to you. I hope this helped a little need any more or specific advice email me … Stevey192@btinternet.com
Comment by Steven Pleasants — 6/4/07 @ 6:48 pm
Comment by Brandon — 6/21/07 @ 11:00 am
mmmm…i think the one you like the most
Comment by Mireia — 6/21/07 @ 11:14 am
Comment by Anonymous — 7/2/07 @ 8:56 am
Comment by Anonymous — 7/10/07 @ 7:57 pm
who wants to be my girl friend i am 13 years old
Comment by daniel — 7/14/07 @ 9:13 pm
Comment by Anonymous — 7/19/07 @ 6:14 am
woot go me the girl i liked now officially thinks im an asshole and does whatever she can to avoid me
Comment by nate — 7/23/07 @ 6:56 pm
Comment by tc — 7/26/07 @ 11:03 am
me and my girlfriend hannah have snogged 2 days ago and i dont see wats rong wiv her
Comment by Anonymous — 8/7/07 @ 5:13 pm
Hi, i have a question and i hope u can help me with this one, i met this chick at work and we started going out, she knows i have a kid, but b4 we started in our relationship i had told her about my kid, she told me that she cant accept my kid right now.. so i hang on to her coz she had the nices body and she is so fine that i dont want to lose her. .right!! but now after being together for 4 years, she still cant accept my daughter, and she was telling me she wanted to get married but she was telling me that i never opened up any conversation about it.. but how would i do that if she cant accept my daughter up to this point.. im so inlove with her but now shes gone coz she cant accept my daughter and she said she’ll start dating another guy and hopely by doing this she will be able to accept my daughter.. isnt that kinda stupid… what do i do, i want her back still… i dont know what to tell her.. plz advice…
Comment by Jericho — 8/7/07 @ 8:23 pm
right, i’ve like this girl since i started school,(im in my 2nd yr now) and i have become really good friends with her,i am worried that i am now only a friend and thats all i ever will be……..
she has said that herself a couple times (like : we’re too good m8s and stuff)
i really need advice on this as i am unsure what to do..
basicly im saying that i am now too much of a friend and i might never be with her…….
PLZ IM BEGGING I NEED ADVICE
Comment by Anonymous — 8/17/07 @ 8:29 pm
Hey, i have been trying stuff like this for ages the only problem being is im gonna be away for ages at a time and i dont think she will wanna go into a relationship with someone she wont see, what do I do??
Comment by M — 8/25/07 @ 5:21 pm
haha, man I got a funny story. Maybe I am a punk, but I liked this girl soo much. I was too scared to ask her out. So I needed a way to get in touch with her. I knew her from way back, but she didn’t acknowledge me then. But its different now. I forgot all about her and we finally ended up going to college together. So what I did was mean but hey it was creative. We had a night class together. After class one day, I told one of my boys to go stalk her. So she was walking in the parking lot and he walked behind her and tried to snatch her purse. So, I ran to rescue her. He ran away but man did I hit it off. She called out help and I went and helped her and made sure she was ok. She fractured her ankle. I felt so bad because that wasn’t meant to happen. I wanted to tell her but I am not going to. Some things are better left unsaid. So I picked her up and took her home and took care of her. Now I walk her back everyday. We are really cool. But occasionally I feel guilty for doing this. I just hope she never finds out..
Comment by anonymous — 9/19/07 @ 9:48 pm
Haha. That is pretty funny, but how mean! Better hope she doesn’t read this…
I like this girl…Elaine…she is so beautiful and sweet. We talk a lot but just as friends. Sometimes we lock eyes and connect. I really do like her, I buy her lunch every few days. I talk to her about random problems that come up, and talk to her about her emotions.
I really want to ask her out and become more than friends, I hope she accepts me for who I am when I try to get more serious with her.
Thanks for the Tips, I will use them to the best of my ability.
Comment by Anthony — 10/10/07 @ 10:00 pm
i like thid girl and she has a bf how do i impress her so she’ll like me ?
Comment by Will — 10/13/07 @ 6:35 pm
hi i m 25 yr. old n love a girl of other country very much. we met on net n talking all day on yahoo she also loves me but she said take it as a dream only but i want to get her affections in real n express that i can’t live without her. i want to marry that girl….pls help me
Comment by sachin — 10/15/07 @ 5:33 pm
Heya, i am inlove with this girl and she has a boyfriend. She is in my class and im always the one to make her laugh. How can i win her over!!??
Comment by Alex Jay — 10/16/07 @ 7:44 pm
Well first you have to prove to her that you are a better man for her than he is. but ofcourse it is not good enough for you to think that you are but it is the task of convincing her that you are a better man for her. And also, try not to get ur ass whipped when you are trying to convince her, that def won’t help you out. I’d say go find a different girl, who looks just like her!!!!
Comment by Jordan — 10/24/07 @ 6:29 pm
I’m really good friends with this girl at my high school. I’m thinking about asking her out on a nice little date, but I notice that I have a competition with some other guys. 2 are jocks and 2 are skaters and they’re all after the girl I like. They try to showoff, brag, and try to act funny… how can I actually win the girl I like? I’m trying to be myself… I don’t wanna showoff like that, because it isn’t me… how do I impress the girl I like? please respond thx
Comment by Brandon — 11/1/07 @ 9:48 pm
o ummm………
ok i asked out a girl and
it was her 1st day she was way out of my leage
and she said no that was 1 week ago i just managed to get her to be freinds with me and she likes my best freind she only said no cause she dident know me
and said now i have no chance with her what do i do
Comment by dillon — 11/2/07 @ 4:13 pm
also another girl liked me and
then i became her best freind
she said no cause we are to close of freinds what do i do (ps diffrent girl)
Comment by dillon — 11/2/07 @ 4:15 pm
and dont say go find a new girl i cant stop thinkin about eather 1 of them and if only 1 liked me i could 4get about one of them
Comment by dillon — 11/2/07 @ 4:16 pm
Damn, the girl I’m trying to ask out (Alyssa is her name) is kinda liking the other guy (Devon is his name) that I’m going against. I don’t concider this a competition, but Devon does because a few days ago, he hugged Alyssa and said he was coming to her house right in front of my face so I could here it… he even shows off… should I move on? should I keep trying? I need help… really badly…
Comment by Brandon — 11/7/07 @ 12:55 am
Damn tha girl i like is with her friends. Im afraid i blow it up and then no girl will date me’.
Comment by Chris Chucker — 11/8/07 @ 2:14 pm
Comment by mark — 12/2/07 @ 12:16 pm
hi
Comment by Steph — 12/4/07 @ 4:52 pm
wow tough idk
Comment by Steph — 12/4/07 @ 4:54 pm
I LOST IT
the girl i was after has a boyfirend… should i give up? should I keep trying? should i wait till she breaks up with him? the thing is, this boyfriend of her’s knows i’m after her, so i know this dude is gonna try his hardest to keep her… HELP PLEASE!!!!!!
Comment by Brandon — 12/6/07 @ 9:10 pm
when wonder whether to ask that special lady out or not ask yourself this is she fat ugly and ginger the answer applies to both he he he
Comment by Anonymous — 12/11/07 @ 3:36 pm